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What should I do about this?

Well I met this guy and we message each other a lot, we've known each other for about 2 weeks and we have only hung out two times. He's says that he really likes me and even kissed me the second time we hung out. He constantly fliers with me and it makes me feel nervous. He's a nice guy though, but it feels like he's just buttering me up. It doesn't feel natural.

The problem is, I don't think I like him in that way and I think I've accidentally led him to think I shared the same feelings back. I just didn't want to upset him. :/ I would like to be friends, but all this romantic stuff so early on makes me feel uncomfortable around him. How should I tell him this without hurting his feelings?

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  • 9 years ago
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    their is never going to be a right way to tell him , thats the hard part , ive gone thru this a couple of times and ive tried to find a good way to say it without hurting his feelings or make up in a good excuse also but i could think of any , youre just gonna have to be straight out , theirs always going to be broken hearts but then people move on , tell him soon before he really falls hard for you

    just say "ive enjoyed the time we spent together and i like how youre so ____________ (compliment him about the things you like about him) but i dont have the same feelings you have for me"

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