Need a mature person's opinion. This is serious(girl situation) would appreciate it if you help me.?

Move on. That's not saying to forget her entirely, but don't wait on her. If she DOES come around, then that's great! If not, at least you didn't wait around like some jerkoff, you know? I know that sounds kinda harsh, but that's the way of the world, kid. Give her time and space. Reading both of those questions, it sounds like she'd got some stuff on her plate, you know? Also, if she DOES call or text you, DON'T BE SO EAGER! Maybe make HER wait. Tell her you're busy, but would like to hang out another time. YOU'VE got to take some of the power back--it can't ALL belong to her (like it's looking that it does already).

Grand I read your whole story and I can tell you right now that this girl likes you. However, at the moment you and her may only be in the friend region and that may be the only region that she wants to be in at the moment. From what you are saying in both of your questions I feel like she may be experiencing a ruff time in her life and is actually looking for a caring friend rather than a relationship at the moment. To show you what I mean just look at this. You asked her out but she said no. Now normally when a girl says no when a guy asks her out its either that she doesn't like him or that she just isn't emotionally ready to be in a relationship for whatever the reason. I think its number 2 because after she said no yet she still wanted to be near you and she asked you to walk her home from then on. Another example is that she had a great time with you when you hung out and she didn't show any signs of discomfort when you were hanging out as friends. However once things started to get more intimate she immediately backed up and wasn't mad or anything but I feel like she was just not ready. The answer I have for you is to stick by this girl if you really love her. Become the friend that she needs and wants in her life and do nice things for her that show that you still love her (get her roses.on valentines day and do nice things for her and most of all always be there when she needs you) However, don't pass the line of friend. The situation you are in is a waiting game, you just have to wait for her to make the move instead of you. And if you really are crazy over this girl and think she is the one than she is definitely worth waiting for:)

Sweetie you're just opting for out the improper women and probably they are not mature sufficient yet. You definately will have to be a high-quality man. Most ladies see excellent guys as very attractive and as anyone they would virtually want to have a relationship with. You must fully deal with a lady like she's truly exact. You sound like you deserve significantly better than what you are getting. Hope you find a just right lady soon!

This is a great question. She sounds like she isn't quite ready for a relationship. That doesn't mean she will never date you, but I suggest calming down and not performing songs you wrote. You should text her or call her to hang out, as a friend. Ask her in person if you can't get ahold of her. Get to know her better and just hang out, find out what she loves to do. If you really like this girl, In a few months to a year, ask her out again. Don't ask everyday or you may scare/bother her. Just be calm, and take your time. She will see how much you like her. Also, if you learn about her, you may find out really good, or really bad things. She may be even better than you imagine, or super psycho stay away!

Either way, be calm, patient and don't let the emotion get to you. Show her you like her, but be a great friend. Best of luck

Ok what you need to do is text her asap and tell her exactly how you feel. Like what she meant with the kiss and all that other stuff that happened(I read the other link as well) and be really sweet about it as well, say stuff like what you said in this atricale, "this girl leaves me breathless everytime i look at her face, and gaze into her eyes."Its really obvious she likes you, and why no tell her? Maybe shes waiting for you to text her first? And even if she says no..Whatever your better than her and anybody would be lucky enough to have you as a boyfriend. You guys can still be friends afterward. But I think she likes you. Shes probably one of those girls that wants the guy to make the first move. So text her asap and tell her everything, how your confused, how you like her, how you wanna be with her and how she makes you feel. Doing this, theres no way she can say no. Comment what she says please!! GOOD LUCK!!

Is 70 yrs old, married 30 yrs, mature enough for you??

I do with you the best of luck, but you are chasing the wrong person. If she were interested in you, she would show it. Not everyone likes the person who likes them. If that were true, then life would be very boring. Hang in there, and start talking with some other girls. You would be surprised at who likes you. Be nice, be kind, warm, and don't expect anything in return. You will soon be wanted by a lot of girls!! Talking with them is the only way to get ahead.

K Im being honest and im not being rude either so just bare with me. You sound way to emotional, I personal find it really gay when a guy writes me a song its to whimpy. I mean yes of course I want a guy to care about my feelings, but when he is coming off like that, it just makes me think you have emotional problems. Wheres my big strong man? Of course I know guys have feelings to, but if you are constantly on the hopeless romantic page, it makes a person look a bit creepy. This is the 21 century, and it is a good idea to keep a bit of mystery to your self. Its not just with people you date either, but say some random person just started crying askig you to hold them thats just f-ckin weird. And besides that, you should stop putting YOUR ENTIRE soul into showing this girl that you like her, it tells her inadverantly that you have nothing else to do, and if a relationship is the only thing you are going to put that much effort into, you might never get a good job or go to school

It really sounds like you two have something going on. Give her time to warm up to the idea that you have feelings for her. Have you told her that you liked her in anyway. It is awesome that you composed her a song on the piano!! Very sweet of you. It sounds like you guys seriously need to talk about going out because a lot of guys wont admit what you admitted in your question. Just ask her if she feels the same way and if she does, go out. But if you guys do go out take it slow because she will need to warm up to the idea that you guys are going out. I really hoped this helped and good luck!!:)

The link doesn't work so I don't fully understand your circumstances. However, I would suggest to take it a little slow. You might creep her out and turn her off, instead play cool but at the same time letting her know that you have deep feelings for her so she is not confused and ends up putting you in the dreaded "friend zone".

Well, that was long to read, but I read it all.

Do you guys call each other on the phone sometimes, just to chat or something ?

(can edit for answer, I'll be following your thread)

Edit : It may not be of much help but I guess all you can do now is wait&see...

Good luck, little bro. I've been there too ;)