What should I say too my dad?

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So I'm going to try to make this...as short as possible because its VERY long. It happened around Mid-November and Early December. I'm not going to add ALL the stuff that happened because its LONG.

About 2 years ago my aunt got arrested and my dad just got out of jail for not paying child support and he was PISSED well he decided to post my aunt's mug shot on FB. So I showed my mom because I was PISSED. Well everyone INCLUDING my aunt was on my facebook. So at the end of the night my dad was trying to say it was all my family's fault about what he said about me. Well after what he said about me being a drunken mistake I said " Shut up! You have no right saying that about ME or MY REAL family!" Sooo I wouldn't even bother to call him he didn't even call me on Christmas. WELL, I went up to Ohio for Easter  to visit because most of my family and his family lives there. I went to spend the night at his moms house and it was like the 2nd week I was up in Ohio I was woken up around 9:30 A.M. by his sister and said my mom had called, well little did I know she was outside. So I got my stuff together and went out and got in the car. Well I guess my dad was going to try too keep me at his house away from my mom. So I haven't talked to my dad since April I think. He didn't call on my 16th birthday which my b-day is September 2nd. I really didn't give 2 shits. And his birthday is on September 16th well I didn't call him. So like I wanna call him tomorrow or Thursday but I don't know what too say too him.

Soooo give me some Ideas of what I should say.

Tyson · Accepted Answer

First tell ur dad wat he did was wrong and why and how it made you feel. 

And totally off topic babe see we keep lying like your age? I love you but this is a HUGE problem in are relationship one lies than the other does it like a pattern and it's affecting us really BAD

KireM · Answer

What comes out the mouth is what is in the heart. Your father was very wrong to say something that awful. Any father who loves his child would never say something so terrible. Truly, I admire you for forgiving him. As far as what you should say to him, I can't really help you with that. What you want to say to him depends entirely on how you still feel. Reflect on your thoughts and when you're ready, I'm sure it will come to you.

Tay · Answer

I know he is your dad but he is a low life trash who should be neutered for calling you drunken mistake. 

Don't even waste your time. Deadbeats who get caught for not paying child support usually likes to blame everyone else 'why they can't pay' but the reality is, it's their fault for not paying.

Anonymous · Answer

You should tell him exactly what you're posting on here. Tell him how you feel and how his dumb actions effected you. Just be honest don't hold back on anything. Trust me you're going to need your dad in your life for everything you're actually going to need both your parents.

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