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How to get a girl you really like to like you?

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  • 8 years ago
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    Alright man, I can really help you but you HAVE to follow (or at least try to follow) these tips I'll give you exactly right. IF you follow these tips, you WILL get a girl. I'm just going to assume you're in school so girls are all around you making this an easier goal to accomplish with these tips.

    1. Be confident. (Not too shy, not too cocky)

    Girls love a guy who is confident with the way he looks and who he is. You have to get the courage to go up and talk to her. I don't care if she's with her friend, with a guy, in a group, in class, it doesn't matter, if you want the girl you have to talk to her. This is extremely important because once you do that, you're already winning half the battle. Most of these other chumps don't even have the balls to walk up to her and get her number, be the stand out guy.

    2. Don't be awkward.

    The more comfortable you are, the more comfortable she will be with you. This can lead to more touching and a deeper connection which brings me to my next tip.

    3. Don't be afraid to get physical.

    When you are having a conversation with a girl and you involve contact, it brings the conversation, relationship, and connection to a whole new level. It will also make her remember you more. Physical contact can be anything from a touch on her arm, to something as intimate as your hand on her cheek. Just watch out, make sure she doesn't get TOO uncomfortable. If you see that happening, stop.

    4. The Conversation.

    Be yourself 100%. Don't act different. If she asks your opinion on something she likes but you honestly don't like it, tell her you don't like it! Don't say you do just because she does. Girl's like to feel challenged.

    5. Your Intentions.

    This is the most important step so don't mess this up. This is what separates the potential boyfriend, from the potential best friend. You HAVE to make your intentions with her CLEAR. If you don't let her know the first time you talk to her that you're interested, you could be pushed aside or as we call it FRIENDZONED that same day. Now you DON'T have to tell her that you "like her" but let her know you think she's "cute" or "adorable". That will give her a good enough hint that you intend to be with her. This is why I said to "get physical" because that is another big factor that separates the best friends from the boyfriends.

    6. The Kiss.

    Don't go in for it too soon, but don't go in for it too late. Sometimes depending on how deep the connection is between you and the girl you're flirting with is, you could makeout with her the same day! Other times you might wait a week or so. The best way to do this is after you already showed her your intentions of being with her. If she likes you, she'll want to kiss you back. It's really important not to pus out here though! This is vital. And hey man, even if she doesn't accept the kiss, it doesn't mean she doesn't like you. It could mean she just isn't ready or comfortable enough. Don't sweat it, she could still like you. The point is you tried and that is a BIG game changer.

    7. Asking her out.

    You can either go with a direct, or slow approach on this. You can be direct. And tell her you really like her and want to give you and her a chance right then and there. Or you can move slow and ask her to meet up with you again, some place you two can be alone like your house, or a movie, or the park, whatever it might be, but while you two are alone you have to ask her then. Either way you're going to have to be direct. The only difference is sooner or later. If you feel the night didn't go as well as you planned, do a slow approach. If you feel like you lucked out, and the night went amazing, you got the kiss, she responded well, etc. go with the direct approach.

    A few extra tips:

    Keep eye contact, stay close, good hygiene is a must, but don't use too much cologne, have gum or mints just in case, be assertive, be confident, be you

    Uhh that's it I guess! Good luck getting a girl bro.

    Source(s): Experience
  • 8 years ago

    Never swear

    Don't seem overly confident when around her-that's very intimidating and scary...very!!!

    Wash your hands!

    Smell nice...axe is ok!!! But I usually don't like axe

    If you can, be funny

    Don't put her on the spot

    Be nice, whatever you do nice wins it all

    Compliments are awesome, even if its like "you look very happy today" it is nice

    If you see her everyday, it's difficult but talk to her everyday. Even if its just one word, it's showing her that you care about her. And it doesn't come across as creepy, I say "hey " to my friends all the time and it shouldn't be Too hard, or just smile on somedays

    Don't worry about being too awkward or blushing, I find that so cute even with the weirdest of guys. Just Don't try covering up your shyness with some ballsy comment , it makes you look stupid

    Don't be a player! People are not stops along the way, they are destinations....so don't just date someone for fun date them because you truly want to and commit

    Brush our teeth

    Don't wear the same thing everyday (same shoes and hats are ok, sorta)

    Don't act like a dumb a$s around your friends....lots of guys are so faced around girls and around friends....just be one person please!

    That's about it!!!!

    Good luck:) I'm a girl, 15..

  • 8 years ago

    Be sweet and if shes nice to you then she has no problem to you but dont go all crazy and say everyday "Heyy beautiful " because that totally lets her know you like her and ive always found that creepyish but talk to her try to hang out with her and then later on tell her how you feel,,,but ont be late because that may be a bad decision.

  • 8 years ago

    Rohypnol

  • 8 years ago

    Talk to her. Make her laugh. Be shy when/if you compliment her. But talking to her and becoming a good friend of hers is important.

  • 8 years ago

    confidence, charm, humor, and most all, be yourself. Can't make someone like you...just gotta wait till she comes around.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    dont creep on her and always say hi. dont always walk up to her if she is more than 10 feet away.

  • be yourself and let her know you like her. If you are good person and she is attracted to you, she will like you.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    make her laugh. simple.

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