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How you get over your first love ?

I'm heartbroken and I wanted to know how others git over their first love. Because all I'm doing is thinking about him I just really need some advice

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  • 8 years ago
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    you have to KNOW and BELIEVE that you will be over him. keep telling yourself you dont love him and he doesnt mean anything to you. first step is accepting its over and telling yourself you can forget him. everytime you miss him, remind yourself of how he hurt you and give yourself reasons to hate him. dont think about the good memories, but think about everything bad and hurtful that happened.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I still think about my first love sometimes, but it's in the past and I know that if we were really meant to be together, we'd still be together. Try and focus on moving forward, meeting new people, and if you find yourself thinking too much about him, go outside, get some fresh air, hang out with friends, it doesn't do well to dwell on the past like that.

  • 8 years ago

    Time. You just gotta imagine yourself as being fine without that other person. Then you gotta focus on you and the things you like to do. Hopefully that combination will put you in the best place to feel comfortable being with someone new.

  • 8 years ago

    This is not real advice, just something that was once told to me and it really made me laugh, so maybe you will too. "The best way to get over someone, is to get under someone else."

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Try talking to other guys if you have guyfriendz they will probably comfort you and just don't think of him delete all photos and memories of him don't look at him ignore him in everyway possible

  • 8 years ago

    Well, when my girl of two years left me. I surrounded my self with my friends hung out etc.

    one of them told me this. It is brutally honest.

    You cant grieve about something you cant change, you need to relize you two are done.

  • 8 years ago

    In time it will go away. You will find someone better.

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