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Do any other male to female trans people feel like I feel?
With all the issues I have with my body I can deal with all of them except for the fact that I'll never be able to have children of my own. I know that I can always adopt and have a family but I have this really strong mothering urge to have children of my own. It feels unbearable at times for me to even think about this because it's just so painful. I know that some women lose the ability to have kids before they have any of there own (not saying this is worse then there struggle). I know it sounds harsh but they at least HAD a chance before life screwed them over where as I've never even had a shot.
If you could help me with any support or advice it would be much appreciated. Thank you.
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- ?Lv 68 years agoFavorite Answer
all i can says is that im really sorry you feel that way.
my boyfriend is trans and he is constantly depressed about the fact that he wont be able to reproduce as well. and hes is VERY into families and knows i want a bunch of kids. so if we end up getting married in the future, we will be adopting and fostering a lot of kids. i think it helps him to know that im accepting of him and that i know what im getting into. it still bums me out a bit that i wont be able to have children of my own, from my own body, but life is tough i guess.
- Anonymous8 years ago
*hug* I feel your pain. I want children very, very badly.
