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How to keep a conversation going with him? Pleasee Help!!!?

Okay, so I'm in love with this guy who I have been seeing on and off for about 3 years now. I really do love him and I believe that he loves me I'm 17 and hes 20 and I just think that there's more things that he have to talk about then I do. But I want to be able to keep the conversation going for once and not have this long pause in between and not having him to talk all the time. He has problems with that and if I don't do anything about it now then I don't know how else I can handle it. We've talk about this situation before but its too embarrassing to bring it up over and over again...So what should I do, my life cant be like that even if its with other guys.

- Hes hurt me a lot in the past but hes changed and I just want to make it last now

-I can keep a conversation going but I just want it to be good with him

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  • Jill
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    if your a quiet personality then I dont know how you can change your communication pattern. The only thing I can think of is that sometimes we are not compatable with someone, some we really click with and or have heaps in common we can talk and talk and talk. My bf though is not a big talked he is focussed on us a lot but not so much about stuff outside of us... its been hard for me to get used to as I am a intellectual communicator where he is an emotional communicator. I have learnt to accept his quietness and retreating to reflect but he always comes back..because I have deep feelings for him and essentially we have excellent communication and accept each others differences. I know you say you love him but you are young and if you have been dating on and off have you really experienced being with other guys to see if your communication patterns are different.... good luck

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