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Does he still love me or not?

I cheated on my husband of 8 years and found out he cheated on me 2 wrongs don't make a right i know that it's been a month and a half and I haven't seen my husband till today at court with his girlfriend he was questioning my daughter if I have a boyfriend or not he still acts bitter and angry with me does he still love me and is there hope still of our relationship down the road or is it just a honeymoon period This new girl he just met on a dating service in 2 days after meeting her were talking to her moved in with her is there hope still have our relationship. Should I just give it time and see what happens

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  • 8 years ago
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    I can't answer for sure if he does or does not love you. But I can point out a few things that may help you.

    A: The fact that he met a girl online and met up with her only TWO DAYS to me shows he's desperate. Desperate either for company (he's lonely), desperate for love, or desperate to make you jealous.

    B. Since he is angry and bitter towards you could actually be a good thing. This means, in one way or another, he cares about you. He may still love you, he may not, BUT, because he has strong emotions for you shows he DOES care. If you meant nothing to him, he would have a carefree attitude, he wouldn't care. So he does care about you. To what extent, I don't know. You should probably ask directly "Do you still love me?"

    Hope that helps.

  • 8 years ago

    If he is still emotional about you then very possibly. I would consider why each of you cheated. Cheating in itself is not a big deal, I have been cheated on by every girl I've dated. Their actions have never changed my opinions of them. People behave the ways they do for reasons. I usually figure out the reasons and then it's not a very personal thing because I don't control their actions. In my opinion cheating on someone is just another form of lying. If someone has to lie to a person they are supposed to love to be content with themselves, then there are more serious personal issues that take precedence over hurt feelings. If the two of you can fulfill whatever it is that makes you complete, then it would be difficult to replace that relationship. A man needs to know where he stands, and he probably moved on quickly because he doesn't know how to be alone. It doesn't sound like that behavior is typical of either of you, so you probably hurt his trust. "If she would do that, then what did any of it mean", so I would consider avoiding emotion and just laying the honesty of what you were thinking, and why you still think he is important all out on the table.

    If you were his first real love, meaning even his mother, then no one can replace that, but that doesn't mean someone else can't offer a better future and present. So if you do entertain the idea of working it out, I would recommend seriously thinking through what you have to offer now and forever, and don't just try and go back to the way it was.

  • 8 years ago

    You've lost him, I guess that's what happens when you cheat on him.

  • 8 years ago

    hmm he's got issues... honestly... forget about him... idk how some1 would get a gf and move in in a couple of days... he's nuts... ur better wihtout him

  • 8 years ago

    No..

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