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Girls like me, we hooked up, but she dosnt want a relationship?

I met this girl last semester. We talked once or twice. This semester we talked alot more I got her number txted her alot. We went out for coffee talked for a few hours hugged her goodnight. Then a week later I met up with her as we were both studying for exams. She wanted to go home so I walked her to her car and kissed her twice. She txted me the next day that its going faster than she thought and wants to slow it down. A few weeks go by and we go out for ice cream. She tells me she dosnt want a relationship because she broke up with her boyfriend 3 months ago and she dosnt want to hurt my feelings. We get in my car and hook up. The week after that we hooked up about three times on three different days. Everytime it went much longer. Last hookup was about 2 hours. Anyways the next day I went with her to her car and I wanted to hook up with her again but she said she cant do this friends with benefits thing anymore. She dosnt feel comfortable with it. She just wants to be friends. Im in a maze right now... what are my options here? She told me she likes me and had a crush on me since the beginning of the semester...

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    Let her know you never saw it as friends with benefits, that she has all the time in the world, and that if she does eventually want to date you to let you know but just give her space for now.

  • 8 years ago

    Respect her decision and move on...

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