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Okay so i asked out a girl. I was all happy and what not. Then something that never happens to me happened! I got shy around her. I got so shy around her i really didn't talk to her much anymore. So i asked recently if she stilled wanted to go out. she said she didn't know. I told her how i got shy and what not. She said it was okay. I told her to let me know if she still wanted to go out. That was friday. Should i move on or what? During that time that i was shy.She would give me mix signs. So should i move on? Or what?

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    ask her out and make sure it is a private location so you cab relax

    Recommended to take it slow, take time to get to know the person. Try to keep things clean, less baggage. Let years of perfect relationship before marriage (if you want you can always be engaged and married after years has passed). You can always accept the marriage ring and just marry when you have a few years of solid peace and love engagement/relationship. Make sure only settle for your soul mate with peace and keep in mind there are many soul mates. Arguing is normal but is it good? no, so make sure it is 7 years no arguments. After 7 solid years of perfect marriage then a child if desired.

    If things are minor I usually just wouldn't even give it a second thought. If it is major I just fix it the best way and that's it. Maybe this will be a good method for you guys. Always reinforce it with Love

    Also I see premarital counseling working.Church usually has it for free. You can even attend after marriage. Make sure no medicines.

    When you marry if you do decide to then make sure you don't play games and straight forward to your wife. Make sure you protect your family from outside by working only and your wife is a stay at home mom. NOTE if she makes double your wage, you better stay at home instead and do the cooking cleaning and so on. If you work you can do all the home manly things. If plumber or whatever needs to go to the house make sure you see them the whole time. Make sure you have a hospital or office with only females. Give love to your wife always and hear her out and then you have to make the decision. Also be responsible for the family. Make love to her as much as she wants, make sure she is always satisfied as you too will be satisfied. Be attentive to the kids and your wife. Make sure you save, pay your car with cash, your house with cash and then retirement. Make sure you raise your kids right to be good adults. What every your handling there's no need to tell your family, just make sure you on the ball so you can get it back and score. Make sure you stay fit, try to be handsome even if you think it is silly or waste of time or you think you don't. Take a shower 1 to 2 times a day. Make sure you smell good. Make sure you have good breathe. Make sure you go to the restroom when she is not around for number 2 or 3. Make sure you are organized. Make sure you dress decent at all time (wear the favor t-shirt with holes under your other shirt). Make sure she knows she is appreciated and important to you and the family. If it is her or them it is always her as long as it makes sense. They can always be second, but she is first. MUST make sense. When she is not right on some things or don't remember just help with a quiet mouth. By all this your married life if you choose will be a fulfilled one.

    White Knights never argue, but knights make their women proud and want them. Make sure you have everything ready. I mean like saving for a 6 month rainy day and then increase that as much as you can as time goes on. Buy a house cash small to start and then bigger when you decide and ready to have a child so the child can stay in one community for their whole school life and a place to come home always during Holidays and for you to plant your plants and watch them grow and to grow old in, make sure to pay cash or go smaller if needed or just wait on the child/bigger home, peace is most important. Your wife should always have access to cash and a good amount. If you can it is better you balance the books. Pay that car cash, used or new. Pay the vacation cash and have your retirement ready, remember to diversified in many ways not just many stocks but many ways. NOW if you want to use some credit cards because of perks then make sure to place that cash aside in the bank account so when the statement comes cash is already waiting ;)

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  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    Okay ask her out subsequent friday rationale she most of the time be busy all week so take a look at the weekend. Don't ask her out the primary danger you get rationale that might make you look like your obsessed. Also discover out while she has not anything to do at the weekends so that you men may have a date. If she maintains on turning down to your proposals for a date then she's approach too busy for a dating. Maybe she simply wishes to be peers rationale she has no time for having a bf?

  • 8 years ago

    hahaha... move on dude there's plenty of fish the sea.

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