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Should I Ditch Him Because He Ditched Me?

Okay so today is finals week so all the students can leave home early. Well I decided to stay after just because my boyfriend had to stay after (or so I thought), and I wanted to be a good girlfriend and hang out with him. Well guess what he decides to do?! He decides to go check out early with his friend and leave me at the school by myself. So my boyfriend ditched me basically! Luckily my mom was in the area so she could pick me up, but still I am very hurt by this! He even said, "Oh you can still text me and talk to me so there will be no worries." That made me feel even worse! I mean I love him a lot, like he is always there when I am really sad and gives comfort, protects me, isn't a pervert, and is faithful to me, but he shouldn't just ditch me right? I mean my friends say I should ditch him in return, but I don't feel that's the right thing to do! What do y'all think I should do?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    First, I am so sorry. That sucks. :(

    But I don't think you should ditch him back, that is petty. A relationship is not about getting the better of the other person - always winning, you know.

    It's about sharing your life with someone you like, and sometimes people make mistakes, without even knowing it.

    My suggestion would be to talk to him and let him know that you were hurt.

    It is good that you don't feel that you should get back at him, that means you've got a good head on your shoulders.

    Talk to him, he might not even know you are hurt. And it will help avoid similar problems in the future because he will be more concious about stuff like that.

    Good luck. :)

  • Linni
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    Only if you two had specifically agreed to wait for each other / meet up after exams. If not, he is allowed to go home early with his friend. And if he was definitely wrong, two wrongs do not make it right.

  • 8 years ago

    DO IT!-lol

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