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Anonymous asked in PetsHorses · 8 years ago

How to tell my barn owner I am leaving?

So I need to move my horse soon because where he is now just isnt the proper setup for what I like to do on a regular basis with him. However the lady can be a bit intimidating although she is very nice. She likes having me there too take care of her horses when she is gone too for a discount on board. How can I say I need to leave her facility without hurting her feelings or making her mad? I need to meve my horse no matter what. Also how could I go about telling her I can still care for her horses when she is out of town but instead of a discount on board she could pay me?

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  • 8 years ago
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    Break it to her easily. Tell her that this is for the best, and you really believe that what you're doing is right. I'm sure she'll understand. Being nervous is common when you're talking to other people about something they wouldn't like. Just come out and say it, but not too fast. It may be too much pressure all at once. Be prepared to ask questions that she may have, and go ahead and have a plan for what you're going to do when you move your horse. About the whole caring/paying thing, tell her you're still available to take care of her horses when she's out of town, but now she couldn't really give you discounts and that money would be the "appropriate" option of payment. Just remember, talk it through slowly and COMMUNICATE. The worst thing you can do is bring it out all at once harshly and then just walk out. She needs to be able to express her feelings/thoughts as if it were a normal conversation. I hope this helped!

  • 8 years ago

    Look at your lease agreement and follow the instructions to which you agreed when you began leasing from her. If it is 30 days notice in writing, do that. You could speak to her in person and just be honest and up front about your move. Tell her that you have enjoyed being at her facility but you have greater needs now that requires you to move. This is a business arrangement and should not be hurtful nor should it make anyone angry. I don't get that part of it but, anyway. Also tell her you would be glad to continue caring for her horses as needed for a reasonable fee. Just because you are moving your horse, that does not preclude your being available to help her. Sounds like you have done well at this facility so just stay calm, be polite and professional, and follow the agreement you have with her regarding your lease and all should be fine. If she gets an attitude or reacts in a negative fashion, just tell her you are sorry she feels that way, that you valued your relationship with her, and you are leaving on this date. Again, I don't get why this would be a problem, maybe a personality issue but you can't control someone's outlook or perspective. Best of luck.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    She is a business owner, she knows that things like this aren't personal. If you give her proper notice and settle your bills, she shouldn't have a problem with it. Just arrange a time to meet and explain when you plan to leave. You don't need to give her an excuse or explanation. You can also let her know that you are still willing to care for the horses and arrange compensation. But it's likely she will replace you with a new boarder rather than keep you on for pay.

  • Finley
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    this is a business.

    she's not your buddy, she takes money and in exchange you keep your horse there.

    that's it.

    she's not going to beat you up. she might miss you, but that's it.

    So, to say g'bye, you do what every other boarder has done from the beginning of time:

    you write a 30 day notice, thank her and when the day comes, you move out.

    you can tell her that you'll take care of her horses, etc... for pay (tell her how much pay or ask her how much she'd pay you).

    It's not rocket science.

  • 8 years ago

    Thank you for everything, but i am moving my horse to a different barn. This is my 2 weeks notice (or one month...whatever your written boarding agrmt calls for). If you need any help taking care of the horses when yu are out of town, please call me. I'd be happy to help.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    You aka Bodee: Yo, BO. I'm leaving because of "le reason".

    A lot of people overthink such situations. Just say what you want, tell the truth. In business, there is no such things as "feelings".

    Its all about cold hard cash.

    No sweet talk.

    Say you apologize for the short notice and you did really enjoy it there. Try to find someone to help before you tell her that you can't help anymore. Then when you tell her, suggest the person.

  • 8 years ago

    "Hey dude! I'm leaving forever. Bye."

  • 8 years ago

    "bye"

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