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peace♥dance
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peace♥dance asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 8 years ago

I'm a virgin, the guy I'm dating is not... Is it normal to feel weird about that?

I recently started dating this guy and found out he's not a virgin. I am still a virgin and it kinda makes me feel weird that if we do get to the point of having sex that I'm losing my virginity to someone who's already lost theirs. This is kind of a turn off for me. I'm not sure why but maybe it's just intimidating or I feel like it's not gonna be as special to him as it will be to me. Any thoughts or advice to help me get over this?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    It's not weird at all. It's understandable that you feel uncomfortable because you think he is expecting that sex will be a part of the relationship, but you don't have to give in to that until you feel ready. Don't just give up on the relationship or have sex because you think it will make or break it. If you can you should talk to him about that. And I'm sure if it ever happens with him, it will be as special to him as it is to you.

    Source(s): My own relationship
  • burge_99
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    I think that is normal so you have to make a decision now and stick to your guns. To alot of guys its just getting a girl into bed and its a game.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    it's not wierd at all. dont do anything you dont want to do!

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