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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 8 years ago

What will my sisters future be?

She smokes, does drugs, maybe drinks, hangs around dangerous people and she's pretty stupid when it comes to keepin her mouth shut and she's very disrespectful. She always gets in fights doesn't go to school and it wouldn't suprise me if she gets herself killed. She gets to do whatever she wants and no one stops her, not even my parents. What'll happen to her, i'd prefer answers from expierence.

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  • 8 years ago
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    Don't need to worry too much. Happiness lies in contentment. Many Syrian civilians are killed, and many displaced Middle-East refugees live a dreary life and are always on tenterhooks.

    Thus, isn't it a bliss to be aware that your sisters are all safe and sound and live a life with sufficient material possessions?

    Ancient philosophers also said that let nature takes its course. Therefore, it is a better to let them enjoy their lives.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I can remember as a teenager, my older sister was almost the same way (except for the school and drugs part). She had this bright future, my parents love her to death, I do as well but she was totally out of control, and it effected me almost as worse as she was effecting her health.

    Here's what I know:

    If she's older than 18, then it's up to her whether or not she does drugs, or anything else--sorry but it's law...

    It also depends on your age believe it or not..

    If you're close to her, talk to her about it, and tell her how you feel (that's what I did). Or tell a trusted friend, or adult (if you're not one).

    If you're parents know what she's doing, and not stopping her, then I believe that you should step in or your family should get counseling (that's what my family did).

    My sister is fine now... she's not harmed in anyway, and she didn't turn out bad...

    I had a fear that she'd turn out like my relative who is in her twenties and quit school because she turned to drugs after her parents' divorce... Every day is a struggle for her, and she's a really good person when you look past the bad choices, it's a sin...

    Now--to break it all up, you have to jump into action before it's too late... The last thing you need is for something as bad as her overdosing (yes it does happen) or killing herself because of the amount of drugs in her system, and for all the guilt to be on yours and your parents' shoulders, constantly wondering "what if?".

    Tell a friend, talk to her, or contact an anonymous help phone program...

    Hope I helped and good luck with the whole situation :)

    Source(s): Experience.
  • Hm.

    Some people stop doing all of that, and others continue. Their actions can cause them to end up dead or in jail. If she is still in school I assume she is a teen. I was a teen who did all of that and I stopped. The big trouble comes when you hit 18 and still haven't grown up enough to realize that being a bad person isn't "cool".

    You can try to help your sister see that her actions are wrong, but in the end only she can make the change.

  • U said it ....she end up dead. The drugs will rot her teeth, she will get arrested, she will look 20 years older than she is and will never be able to get a job....if she doesn't make some guy mad and he'll beat the crap out of her. She will be used and abused. If she survives .....and she hits bottom she then may let someone help her if thee is no one who will force her into a program now.

  • 8 years ago

    Either dead, prostitution, or living with an abusive drug dealer boyfriend.

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