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Should I be Moving on by Now?

At the end of October a girl I know told me she had a bf and I really, really like her. I've always had feelings for her and now they've only gotten stronger. In mid-November we talked more about it, like I told her how I feel (I really care about her, want her to be happy, etc.) and she said that I would "get over it" or that "it will pass". In other words, she doesn't really want me to feel this way. She's still super nice, understanding, and caring, but I can tell that this guy really makes her happy- not me.

I don't look at any other girls the same way as I look at her, but there is a girl I just met who is pretty cute, she's smart, athletic, full of smiles, and I think that she might like me. Should I already be moving on from the girl I've had feelings for for a long time? I feel like me saying that I care about her a lot and then going off and being with some other girl is really hypocritical. Any advice? Thanks for reading, have a good day!

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  • 8 years ago
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    U could, but it's really up to u. But trust me, I've been thru it before... Not to sound creepy or anything but the girl in my question u just answered(thanks btw) when I first told her I liked her, we weren't even friends she basically said that I would never have a chance. She wen thru like 3 boyfriends but the all of the sudden we were friends and one of her boyfriends actually got jealous.

    What I'm trying to say is basically things can (and probably will) always get better. Just because u are starting at the bottom doesn't mean u have to stay there.

    Again though, moving on is your choice. If you want to date the other girl, go ahead, just make sure you actually like her first.

    Thanks again for answering my question, it will really help.

    Good luck!

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    It's time to move on. Ask this new girl out! See where your life leads from there.

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