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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 8 years ago

I want to date this girl...AFTER sex?

Me and this girl like eachother. We met at school (college), and have been talking and texting for a bit. The other night we hung out, saw a movie, went back to her place, and had sex. I still want to get to the point where we can be "boyfriend/girlfriend," but it seems kinda difficult now. Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can still make that happen?

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  • 8 years ago
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    A lot of relationships work out that way. Just be sure dude that yall were clear on the terms before yall had sex. Like no strings attached. If that was the agreement, I wouldnt do it bro. It will get complicated between yall two later down the road. She will probably be like " Do you think it is just lust between us?" I guarantee it. Not to say that it would be the end of it. But it is definitely something to consider because it is a potential problem in relationships. So, at the end of the day man it is your call. But, let it play out a bit for a couple of weeks. See what happens. If it grows into something then it does. But be sure yall just don't have feelings for each other just because yall had sex. Hope that helps. Best of luck

  • 8 years ago

    I would suggest keep hanging out with her, more and more. Take her out on DATES and stop having sex until you two are officially together so that she doesn't think that you're only in it for the sex. Maybe even talk to her about seeing her as a potential girlfriend and you don't want that one night to say anything about who you are as a person but you are very interested in her.

  • 8 years ago

    Take her on another date..a real date. If you're going to just keep hanging out/hooking up then you two are just going to be "together" which is different than boyfriend/girlfriend as you know. Take her places, do cute things for her and hopefully it'll get to the point of boyfriend/girlfriend! Good luck :)

  • 8 years ago

    Just bc you had sex it doesn't mean you can't be together now just pick up on how she reacts and be honest with her if that's what you want most girls want relationships after sex no matter how they try to hide it being in a bed alone ain't fun

  • 8 years ago

    Just show her that you're still really into her. Keep talking/ texting just like you did before. It's only awkward if you let it be awkward. So just make sure she's always comfortable around you.

  • 8 years ago

    Ask her on more date. Unless she's one of those girls who just likes to bang anyone for fun, I'm sure she liked you and would be up for the bf/gf thing, even if it happened backwards. Good luck(;

  • labus
    Lv 4
    4 years ago

    i've got heard of the "third date rule", yet no longer the fourth. i do no longer think of this is a regulations lady element, i might guess they might prefer to attend plenty longer. Haha Lu, i think of airport protection could have a topic with that concept!

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    wait a few days after the sex..u dont want her thinking your asking her out just because she ****** you. talk to her listen to her..mybe go on a few more dates. no sex though.. then ask her if shed like to be yourgirlfriend..

    Source(s): experince
  • 8 years ago

    dot make it awks now just ask her out on another date, and get to know eachother like you wouldve if you hadnt had sex :)

  • 8 years ago

    Ask her out on another date.

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