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guy im dating does not want to add me to facebook? should I be cautious?
Im not a stalker nor a crazy person on fb. Its just common fun. This new guy ive been dating now for about a month is not ready to add me as a friend. He stated that he has had some bad experiences with crazy women on his fb getting him into trouble or causing drama. I believe him yet ive always had people add me, its a bit frustrating.
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- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
You should assure him that was his past & this is now. You need to question him asking What's the big deal & kind of suggest that it looks like he's hiding something. To prove that's it's nothing he should add you. If his problem was truly because of girls of his past.You need to remind him who he is dating now & how it is unhealthy moving on in a relationship with secrets.
- ?Lv 68 years ago
How can someone be afraid of adding you on FB?
What kind of drama?
If someone is crazy wouldn't you just go and block and not accept anyone new if that person use another name?
I think that you should not trust him. He made some excuses.
He's maybe trying to clean up things that he does not want you to see.
Anyone else you know with FB trouble?
I bet that new BF has lots of girls on his wall. so to speak. lol
Tread carefully
- Anonymous8 years ago
It sounds to me that he's not wanting a serious relationship. My bestfriend was in ur position and she just gave him the benefit of the doubt but after he slept with her a few times he broke up with her and treated her like a nobody, just some crazy girl whose he never met. Facebook may not be something important but it is something that allows u to enter a part of his life. So it's really up to you I would be offended personally no matter what kind of experiences he had he's now dating you, you know? Does he think bad about U are something? That's what he's basically saying well to me
Source(s): Life - Blue Ivy CarterLv 58 years ago
Yes be catious. Hes obviously hiding sth. Why else would he act this way? I suggest ask a friend to add him and see whats up with him!
- 4 years ago
properly it does not sound like your overly keen on him, to be uncomplicated. basically make beneficial he's official. human beings can genuinely pretend their somebody they don't seem to be online. have you ever seen him on webcam or something? in case you desperate you opt to fulfill him, do it in an open, public place, and make beneficial somebody is conscious the place you're going (in actuality, a good suggestion is to have somebody else there.. they don't might desire to be with you, yet say working example you meet in a bar.. get a pair of your friends to circulate there and that they are in a place to maintain an eye fixed on you from yet another table to confirm you're ok). Oh and that's a first rate concept to have an get away course planned.. working example, a chum might desire to telephone you at a undeniable time, and in case you opt to circulate pretend they're ringing when you consider which you will possibly be able to desire to be someplace else. in case you opt to stay, you could basically reject the call. It sounds slightly tragic, yet basically in case you sense the might desire to get away :) -- he's in all probability purely a common guy, yet I basically intend to make beneficial your questioning approximately your risk-free practices. EDIT: neglected the area once you pronounced human beings have been telling you which you mustn't date him. Is it because of fact they understand him for my area? if so, i might a minimum of evaluate what they are asserting. in the event that they don't understand him, then go on your guy or woman emotions. as long as you reside risk-free, it is as much as you :)
- sexydurabull69Lv 48 years ago
yes you should be cautious, because just as easily as you can add someone you can unfriend them as well. he's hiding stuff and women he's probably talking to.