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According to Christian teachings, how can a husband meet wife's sexual desire?

plese give details thanks.

we are a pair of newly married Christian couple

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  • Bella
    Lv 4
    8 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Your whole body is hers and vice versa. Enjoy each other. Congratulations

  • Fuzzy
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    According to the scriptures, sex is for the purpose of both pleasure and procreation. Paul speaks about how the husband and the wife both on their part should pay attention to the other and be accommodating both to their need for sex and also the need not for - in other words, be considerate.

    Then there is the detail of the woman's monthly. She should not be having sexual intercourse when on her period. That should not prevent other kinds of attention as love is much more than sex.

    As a marriage matures over the decades, there can be a tendency on occasion where the woman forgets that sex is the glue of marriage that is truly needed. If a considerate husband gets turned aside repeatedly for no special reason except the famous 'headache', should not surprise any when he one is found to have gone to other watering places easier to drink from.

    So when the newness has worn off - and work, children intrude seriously on the free time available, then things become a balancing act that at times need patience and endurance from both parties. Does the husband help enough with the children, with the chores so that the wife is not totally exhausted always! Does the husband come home dead tired, etc. Is the wife working (as is the case many times today) and now needs to cook, change diapers but receives no help from her 'loving' husband making her really receptive to his desires for sex!! etc.

    Being married brings tribulation in the flesh as Paul taught.

    Prov 5:

    15 Drink water from your own cistern,

    flowing water from your own well.

    16 Should your springs be scattered abroad,

    streams of water in the streets?

    17 Let them be for yourself alone,

    and not for strangers with you.

    18 Let your fountain be blessed,

    and rejoice in the wife of your youth,

    19 a lovely deer, a graceful doe.

    Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight;

    be intoxicated always in her love.

    20 Why should you be intoxicated, my son, with a forbidden woman

    and embrace the bosom of an adulteress?

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    While it is clearly obvious that your are a troll, I answer this for the benefit of others.

    Newly married couples need to explore each other's desires and learn what pleases each other. Contrary to some traditions, scripture forbids nothing sexual for married couples except involving people outside the marriage.

    Try reading "The Song of Solomon". Use a good study Bible which divides up the speaking parts. It is a drama meant to be sung, but it is not always clear who the speakers are.

  • 5 years ago

    1 Corinthians 7:3-5 The husband will have to fulfill his marital responsibility to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The spouse does not have authority over her possess body however yields it to her husband. Within the equal method, the husband does now not have authority over his own physique but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each and every other except maybe with the aid of mutual consent and for a time, so that you could be devote yourselves to prayer. Then come collectively once more in order that satan won't tempt you for the reason that of your lack of self-control.

  • Jimbo
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    You're a newly married couple. Riiiiiight! The Tooth Fairy will come by and show you what to do.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    8 years ago

    What you two do in the bedroom is no one's business. Last time I checked there were no restrictions on sex between a married couple in the Bible except for fornication. Fornication is sex between two people who are not married and since you two are married.........

  • ?
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    Read Song of Solomon

    Scripture also says Husbands love your wife as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her...

    Everything goes between husband and wife as long as both are concenting and it's not going in her pooper..or his..

  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    Our absolute sexual love organ, which brings man and woman into unity, centered on God´s love.

    within this, you can go ahead a have fun and enjoy it.

    J

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    1 cor 7 shows that the pair should in fact do that but within reason. there is only one sexual act in the bible, besides that all oral or anal activity is sodomy. groundwire.net

  • 8 years ago

    I doubt seventeen year olds need advice. Thirteen year olds maybe so yeah depends on how old they are.

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