What do i do im scared?

You are an important person who is worthy of love, admiration, and respect. It is just as easy for you to carry everywhere that image of yourself as that of someone unworthy and to be pitied. If this girl really loves you, she will stay with you. If she does not truly respect and love you enough to remain through your better and worse times, she is not the one to whom you would be happiest in a lifelong commitment, either. You will find your soul mate; God guarantees it. I will give you the best and most sincere advice, though: girls are not attracted to people who do not respect themselves. Haven't you noticed in others: The confidence with which you carry yourself is by FAR the overriding image with which you are viewed. Everything else (such as being overweight) becomes almost invisibly peripheral, and may even become a point of emulation and envy as people want to be exactly like you. Your outside begins to be a reflection of your very glamorous inside. :) :)

I've had this problem before. I was worried my boyfriend would leave me and find someone else just because I was a littlle chubby. But let me tell you. He didn't. I found that if he didn't actually like me, he wouldn't have gone out with me in the first place. I'm not the best looking either, but he chose me.

9 months is pretty long and I think that's more than enough time to get to know a person. If she found something about you she didn't like, she would've given you the boot a long time ago! But she didn't right? Maybe it's because she's grown to love how you are, even if you are overweight like how you said. If you're still doubting, always remember to be positive and hope for the best. A good way to do that is to look at yourself positively and others will too!

Don't worry about it. If she leaves find someone worth being with. But there are things u can do such as reducing ur weight and becoming more knowledgeable about things

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Listen everyone likes to lick oranges every now and then. Butts.

just think about how you would treat your mother. love, respect, and UNDERSTANDING.