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Why is luck never on my side?

My luck is so bad it's not even funny. I have not done anything wrong, I even went to church twice last week for the first time in 3 years. Now I'm having the worst luck. Those 3 years I've pretty much been atheist and now that I was starting to believe again my life fell apart. Why? It started on Christmas eve of all days and didn't get any better on Christmas. After a long conversation with my ex she says "...I love you.." but there were all kinds of complications. 3 days later and it only got worse, feelings stronger, all that. She won't take me back, I don't care about anything else anymore :/ I've been in bed all day and when I finally got up everything got worse. My tuner was messing up so a broke a guitar string and it wasn't a nice and easy one. It cut me to the point where I had to stop the bleeding right away. I broke the mouse on the computer, broke a spoon, the soda we bought 4 freaking days ago was flat, just the one I got too. I put my music on shuffle to shut out the world... EVERY song that related to me and my ex came on in line. I manually shuffled and it did no good. It was like it was looped on those specific songs. My friend did a psychology thing on me that would make me not think about her. He has done it to other people, I'M the only one it's had a reverse effect on. Why?

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    Lv 7
    8 years ago
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    I think that way down deep, you DO think that you did something 'wrong'. That's why your brain didn't accept that technique your friend used. Your brain isn't a simple on/off switch. It can take time to 'rewire' neural pathways. One of my best friends, if not my Best Friend, knows these techniques and they have done wonders for me. But there have been times when the same 'tangle' or mental 'problem' would come up again in our talks. I think forgiveness is the key. Forgive yourself for whatever happened between you and your ex. Forgive your ex for whatever happened between you and your ex. Release that and any guilt feelings you have. Release it all. THEN, you can move on and 'enjoy the moment' again ~ and I bet your 'luck' will get a lot better.

  • this is old. I was a little ***** back in the day

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