How to convince your parents, to let you buy yourself a horse?

Since this is obviously not a monetary problem, your parents probably just need to be convinced that you are responsible enough.

Here are the possible solutions:

1) Put together a powerpoint- include things like how you will earn money to care for the horse, pay for supplies and boarding, etc. Also show where you will be boarding the horse, buying supplies, and prove to them that you are responsible enough to take on a horse on your own.

2) Take care of animals around the house (if you have them)- Whether it's fish, cats, or anything else, you need to show that you can take care of animals. Walk the dog, clean the fish tank, scoop the litterbox, clean a cage, whatever. Just show them that you will take care of your horse whether you feel like it or not.

3) Fill a notebook with your plan and any ideas you have- This will help you keep track of everything. Money, jobs, supplies, etc. This will also show your parents that you are organized enough to have a horse on your own.

4) Tell them EXACTLY what you plan to buy for the horse. I'm guessing you have at least $10,000 saved up for the horse. This is how much it is going to cost (maybe less). It depends on the breed you are going to get, but you should have more saved up than you expect to pay. Things always end up being more expensive than you think they're going to be. Trust me, I have a horse, and it spares me a lot of money because my sister owns a barn and she sells me space and time in the arena real cheap. She's a paint named Butterscotch. Really sweet girl. I get boarding for just $25 a month cause my sis is real nice.

5) Just do little things to show them you are responsible. Help out around the house.

Good luck getting your horse!!!

Mandi

Show them that you have the money, tell them that they would not need to pay for anything- not even gas to go see the horse. Tell them that you have been riding long enough that they should know that you are serious about horses, and that it isn't 'just a phase' (It took my parents four years to realize this) Show them that you'll keep up on board, and taking care of the horse and everything. Tell them that you are at an age now where you can take responsibility for such a big thing as a horse. You have the money to pay for everything comfortably! They should be able to look at that and nod an okay! It is not fair that you have obviously worked very hard to get all that money, and that they just say no without a glance.

Seem, you probably have'nt been riding horses for a even as then might be first you should work on getting again into the swing of riding. Proudly owning a horse is a tremendous accountability and can price ALOT of money. Also as a warning 4 years is probably not sufficient expertise to control a green horse. I have ben using for eight years and even i would not get a green horse. I think that you just will have to try leasing a horse at your barn. Its less expensive and offers you the equal freedo as owning your horse

You have 2,000$ minimum a year to pay for a horse?

I suggest you talk to your parents about half leasing a horse, not owning one. Trust me when i say that its not a good idea for a teenager to own a horse on their own without the help of their parents (support and money wise). What if you can no longer work? What if it interferes with school? What if your horse has a sudden illness and needs emergency vet care? How about the costs of farrier?

You need to be sure you are capable of caring for the horse for many years to come, not just for many months.

If you really have that kind of money, they probably would rather you save it to spend on more practical things like school or a car. Also savings isn't enough, you need steady income. Again that income will probalby someday need to go to practical uses. Your parents won't be paying your way forever. What happens then? This isn't what you want to hear, but it's exactly what they are thinking and the main reason they will say no. A more reasonable request would be to lease a horse, they might even be willing to help with the cost.

It took me a year to persuade my mum! I got a job and I pay for him entirely myself. Once I had the £2000 saved up, she couldn't really say no :) you'll have to show your parents that you're responsible and it's not just a phase! I'd been riding 6 years and working at a stud for 4 years. You're just going to have to show them your dedication and willingness to commit. It's a lot of free time you have to give up! 6 am starts in all kinds of weather and I don't know about where you live but it england it rains a lot! Maybe start by having an adult convosation with your parents about their concerns about you getting a horse, then you'll know where to start on the persuading front! Trust me though, the whole getting upset thing really doesn't work! Try not to get frustrated :) good luck!

Ahhhh another one of these questions I see. Yet another spoiled rotten 13 year old girl who didn't get her Xmas horse.

U can ask your parents why they don't agree. u can show benefits if u have a horse to them. I think they will accept if u show sensible reasons

You didn't say if you could afford it if your horse needed the vet. So don't try to convince them.

Walk on all fours.