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how do chubby girls get boyfriends?
I am 5'3 and i should weigh 106-110, but i weigh like, 149.7. i carry it well, so i looke around 136, but im still fat. i have dieted since i was 8, (including annorexia and bulimia) but even making myself sick, i only lost ten pounds that year, and i made myself sick every time i ate. im on anorexia now, but its not working either. i am frustrated because of all the media telling me im not good enough, but i cant to anything about it. ive tried EVERYTHING. so please tell me, how do i get a boyfriend? and please no more crap about how "guys like bigger girls" or "he shouldnt care what you look like." because, no they shouldnt, but they do. i dont know what to do, and im frustrated and depressed. please, please help me.
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- snowfallingLv 48 years agoFavorite Answer
I'm skinny and guess what I cant get a boyfriend either because guess what looks don't help you out either and yea I'm actually atttactive. Ive only met like 1 actual guy who actually wanted more with me than to screw me. Its hard for u and its hard for me. Being skinny doesnt even make that big of a difference it just makes guys horny.
- Anonymous8 years ago
First off, how old are you?
Depending on your age, guys may be idiots still.
Secondly, I was 5'6" and 184 lbs. Bigger than you, by a lot. I joined Weight Watchers and watched the weight slowly fall off in a healthy way. I went to meetings once a week and would loose anywhere between 1-4lbs a week. I dropped to 160 lb and met the best guy ever.
Amazingly, he struggles with his weight too, so we can openly talk about it. We can eat salad together or be bad and enjoy chili fries.
And yes, a guy will always care what you look like, but as long as you dress the body you have properly and work on your appearance (hair, make-up, nails, etc) - he will find you pretty. I still don't like my gut, but my boyfriend (of over a year now) loves me, but loves when I dress up for him.
If you are over 18, I do strongly recommend weight watchers. It does work.
- nikolicLv 45 years ago
Skinny woman professionals Shes first-rate looking shes more likely to be outgoing and make you be outgoing Skinny lady Cons tougher to get in touch with by way of textual content & FB more likely to need any person else cause shes extra experienced shes Tainted jk Chubby lady professionals more a Cushion for the Pushin jk she makes a just right cuddle friend tho you got the same traits shes first-rate looking to im certain you'll have some high-quality experiences with her that you'll be able to make memorable for her you'll be able to have deeper convos Cons She shouldn't be that out getting in individual so you would no longer click on physically thats all i might consider of what u think?
- 8 years ago
I understand how you feel. Although I am not overweight, I do look different then other girls. You need to start eating healthy. Being anorexic will do nothing but harm you. You should start eating healthy and start exercising daily. I know that most girls think all guys care about is looks but confidence shines brighter then anything. Being yourself will attract boys! Also you shouldn't need a boyfriend to feel complete!
Stay Strong!
- ?Lv 58 years ago
They either:
A) lose weight and therefore become more attractive/desirable to the male population
B) find a chubby boyfriend
Good luck either way.
- ?Lv 48 years ago
there are guys out there like that. Im one of them lol i dont care what my girlfriend looks like. But i dont know how old you are but everyone is differant on loosing weight maybe its something in your diet try giving up certain things like replace soda with water. Stuff like that. I hope that helps :)
- 8 years ago
ignore the first answer.
it seems you have a self worth issue. nothing is more unattractive than a woman or man that doesn't value and love themselves.
your body is your body. you're shaped the way you are shaped. accept yourself.
i would see a professional to talk to; instead of questioning aspects of yourself that you can't change.
learn to love yourself, the boyfriend will come later.
- Anonymous8 years ago
there is someone for everyone...
Some people just find it harder then others...
Your time will come... at least your trying, maybe look for help, see a specialist? You never know when love will strike :)