Astrology Compatibility question. For those who know a lot about astrology please.?

first off , i am not looking for sarcasm nor am i looking to change myself. I am just trying to make sense of a current situation that I am in.

There is a guy that I have been talking to and hanging out with for quite a while now. He is a Libra(sun sign)... and his moon sign is virgo.... his venus sign is Scorpio......

I am just wondering which type of girl he is most compatible with? After reading a lot about this, I came to the conclusion that he is more attracted to the dominant type. Which sign best describes his ideal partner? Is it the venus sign or the moon sign?... and by partner I mean someone to date not just sleep with.

I am a taurus (sun sign) ... with Leo as my moon sign and Pisces as my venus sign...

This guy and I have been seeing each other for the past year and after reading about Libras I have understood that they take their time finding the right partner... I have been very patient with him but after a year of off and on hanging out ... I told him he needed to decide what he wanted and if he did not want to be with me then I want out of the picture. He told me nicely that he believes I am a very good girl but he isnt wanting a relationship with anyone right now, not just me. His reasons were that he is young and doesnt like planning things and if I wanted to find out what it could possibly turn into in the future, then I should stick around. Being the Taurus that I am.. i was patient until finally I became angry from all of his confusing actions. He would say he didnt want a relationship but the way he acted around me suggest otherwise..Such as holding my hand and kissing.. Little relationship type things. I finally told him I didnt want anything to do with him and that I want someone that actually knows what they want right now. So I left him alone, no contact for a few days and he repeatedly texted me trying to talk to me. Finally I responded and kept the conversations short. I realized he was super nice and apologized to me.. he wanted to take me out for lunch one day that I was working. I began noticing he was talking to me totally different.. Finally I gave in and agreed to hangout with him.. in the past week we have been spending a lot more time together. (not sexually).. I made it a point to tell him I was not having sex when hes unsure of himself. The times we spent over the past few days were great.. he bought my dinner, and spent a lot of time watching movies with me and began bringing me around his friends more.. which never happened before. My point is... im really confused and dont know if I need to be more dominant and patient at the same time.. or what the best advice would be dealing with this situation. Im close friends with his cousins and they constantly tell me that he is not seeing any other girls.... so im just wondering if hes scared because his last girlfriend cheated on him and he was extremely hurt. Please any insight would help. Also, I found that the more attitude I have while talking to him, the better the conversation. It seems as though he doesnt like the sweet side of me as much sometimes.. i know i can be a bit emotional.....