Guy keeps texting my girl what to do? 10 pts best answer?

You should definitely be concerned; she's hooked up with him before so there must have been something there. I don't think you should stop her (or even if you could knowing girls), just tell her very clearly that you don't trust him and you feel a little threatened (try and use puppy eyes while saying this (she'll either feel very guilty or flattered that you've dropped some of your ego to tell her which ultimately is still good for you either way)) If things don't go well and you have another fight, give her space for a bit and then do something very sweet and special to her to show her that you REALLY do care and aren't being a total psycho, controlling boyfriend and just want the best for your relationship.

Tell her to choose.

If you are the BF then she should not text the guy and she should delete and block him.

better yet she should have anew number.

If she gets pissed again about that then tell her you'll see her when she is ready to be with you.

Walk out and stop contacting her, do not answer her.

She will then understand that you are serious about it and probably will run right back to you.

If she does not then she had already made plans to be with him and was going to cheat on you (if not already done that).

Be strong and don't take that BS.

There's tons of fish in the ocean.

The saying also goes GF are like buses, there's another every 10 minutes.

To be honest I feel like she's aware that the guy she's texting shouldn't be trusted. In other words, when they hooked up, they probably didn't completely let go of each other. I think you should talk to her and tell her that although you trust her, you don't trust him. Tell her that you trust her but don't give you a reason not to trust her. Try meeting the guy, let your position be known to him without being too controlling or overbearing.

I'm a girl and I think what she's doing is completely wrong. If you're not fighting with her, don't start. Just tell this guy to back off, and tell her you don't like them talking so much. Girls like when their boyfriends are protective and act tough, so don't be worried. If she gets defensive or doesn't like that, ask why she feels the need to talk to him. If she has a stupid reason, she's not worth it because she's obviously hiding something from you. Cheaters are never worth it, I know it hurts. Hopefully she's being loyal and she'll be fine with backing off from that guy and will ignore her texts, she shouldn't be talking to someone who she hooked up with!

I am a woman so if she hasn't directly told this guy that she doesn't want to talk to him then 9 times of 10 he wouldn't text her but obviously she hasn't told him this so you shouldn't trust her as well. You don't know what she's telling this guy when you aren't around. Take it from me, I am a woman and women can be very sneaky. She's only telling you to trust her so you can let your guards down. Be very cautious. She's up to no good!

to be fair if that was happening to me i would be kinda concerned. At the end of the day however its true she can text who she wants, trust her until you know she cant be trust and then deal with the situation.

She needs to stop texting right now. There is no reason for.her to hang out with a guy she once hooked up with.

Damn, she isn't yours to control, but I totally get why you'd not be excited that she won't respect your feelings. I say f it dude, and bounce if it continues, cause there isn't a damn thong you can do about it. You don't need a bizatch running you onto the ground cause she doesn't care that it hurts you. She wouldn't like the tables turned on her, I am sure.

i had the same problem with ex my boyfriend, he was always texting this girl, telling me oh we use to hang out, we're just friends blah blah blah, i trusted him and then come to find out he was cheating on me with that girl..i think her texting the other guy shouldnt be allowed. does she allow you to txt other girls, if not, its only fair that she doesnt either. you should talk to her about it, if she flips out over you asking her to stop, then theres obviously more going on than "we are just friends" . not saying go and be all accusing and stuff, just tell her what your worried about

She can text whomever she wants. She isn't your property or your daughter. Let her be.