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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 8 years ago

Should I kick her out, look for a roommate then thats being mean to her she has helped me out a lot?

So I'm 22, I used to live in a studio apartment by myself, or sometimes if I had a boyfriend. Its been hard for me to get a job like impossible, just thank god for my ssi right? I have epilepsy thats why. In November my mom moved in with me and we moved in this two bedroom, she doesn't even have a bed or haven't seen her figgure out how to get one. All she got was unemployment, since we moved in shes been loosing it. Receiving only 35 dollars weekly.

I received my deposit for two hundred dollars for my last place, then like two weeks ago I got my deposit back from the energy company, a $100. Ok I wanted to get some new clothes with that money, if not capable of getting a job my mom is she has a lot of experience, but shes been just staying home, I payed all the bills now the rent is six hundred, I have more to do.I started working as an escort at the beginning of December, I mad like $400 that I got christmas presents with. (that showed me how loyal men can be to their women, sorry out there lol) I told my mom I was working at the stip club for the money. Well I had a rash from my pads during my period, so I couldn't do it for a while. So I didn't do it all month, my mom still doesn't have a job, I had to make payment arrangements with the energy company last month and give them back most their deposit. Now its the week after I owe them $80 and I owe charter $100 after a I pay $600 for rent. I only get $678 from SSI plus I gotta pay my phone bill I gotta get that payed today $30.

I screamed at my mom yesterday, I said awful things to her that I don't want her living with me, I don't care what she does I'm not taking care of her. I said the bills are in my name I have to get these bills payed all she says is she couldn't plaz because her blood pressure was to high or to low. I've never done that ****. She wouldn't help me anyway with that blood money. I told her people are suppose to plaz to save lives not just for money.

I am still so angry with her. She left yesterday I don't know where she went she hasn't had money to pay her phone bill last month we've been sharing! I haven't seen her fil out any applications for a job. She just ******* depends on her unemployment and plazing money, hay she cleans she cooks she trys to keep me happy yeah but when it comes to money. I get so mad like I have anger issues, ud think I need anger management, shes been like this my whole life, shes had some really good jobs though at the casino.

I should throw her out huh. Then I feel bad for her because despite my brother and sister I'm the youngest and she always runs to me for help Maybe get a roommate. OMG I'm loosing my mind! I hope I can get myself to do the escort service again. U know I feel so shitty doing it I'm a really sweet girl I don't deserve this!!!!!

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  • 8 years ago
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    Both of you need help and is not money. How can you throw her out??? Is not a dog or any roomate, it's your mother!

  • Ann
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    If you can be an escort and not worry about epilepsy, you can work a regular job.You strip in front of strangers in strange places but, cannot work a normal job? Baloney. My SIL was a stripper. So was my friend. If you can manage that much stress, you can work.

    You and your mom need to get jobs and get off welfare. My nephew is wheelchair bound. He talks with a special machine. He has a shunt to drain fluid off his skull to stop it from building up pressure and killing him. He needs SSI. A girl who can strip does not.

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