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? asked in TravelUnited KingdomLondon · 8 years ago

Am I doing the right thing? Is this even legal?

I went to Spain and met a girl, I fell in love ^_^ in was on vacation though, I had to go back to America, back to Texas. She wants to move to America, I want her to. Her mom was killed by her dad, her Das just got out of jail and is now out to get her. He beat her the other day with his friends and cut her leg open with a knife. She needed 5 stiches. They did it again today and this time they tried to rape her and beat her, she got away and didn't get raped though. Just a few punches she took. She has already been raped 4 times, beaten many times, it's all because of the shitty *** people where she lives. Her mom (not her real mom, she adopted her) got her 6,000€ and gave her a choice. Move near me or move to England near her cousins. She was born in England. We talked for days, trying to find where to get a green card and papers and everything to move to America. It got confusing, VERY confusing. So I told her to move to England, it's safe there and she doesn't need to sign anything. I will be coming to England in a few years when I move out of my moms house. If we get married we can come back to America together, she won't need a green card or needing to sign anything. Is this the right choice? Is this a good move? I just need your opinion, I think it is.

Update:

@****- I met her on Summer last year, not over 2 weeks. It was a month or two. And she has told me everything. @the1comment- she has told me EVERYTHING. She doesn't like her past life, but she doesn't think about it. Not every person is the same. She is nice and sweet and deserves someone that will treat her good. She is a very good girl, best I have ever met.

Update 2:

Oh yeah, also @****- She has been to the police, it doesn't work. Most police are corrupted like in America, they ask for kisses and hugs. They are true pigs, the only time police helped her is... well never. Last time she called for help a cop slapped her and kept yelling at her, and she called for help. It was to get pot smokers and drunks off her front yard because they were begging her to go party with her.. and probably some other stuff in mind.

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  • 8 years ago
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    You are wrong if you think Spain is some third world nation, first of all.

    No one in the UK is going to know the rules and regualtions concerning getting her into America. You need to post that in the US section. As for her moving to another EU country, yes she can do that very easily as a EU citizen. It obviously depends on her passport, but if both her parents were/are Spanish, its irrlevant she was born in England. But again, free movement of persons means she can go to, and work in any EU country.

    Additionally, I don't know how easy you think it is for Americans to come within the EU, but a reality check there please. If its quick fix you're looking for, why can't she just move away? It doesn't even have to be England, if she doesn't want to leave. She could just move somewhere else within Spain.

    England might not be the place for her, its totally different to Spain. But she if she knows people here, it might be easier than moving within Spain to a place on her own. Since its her life, why don't you ask her?

  • ?
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

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  • ****
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    Hey slow down. You met her on holiday, holiday romance. Do you really think two weeks in Spain is the basis of taking on this relationship further? I mean you hardly know her. If all this is going on in her life, then she needs to talk to the authorities about it.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    8 years ago

    I think she should move to England where she'll be safe and it will give you time to sort out your futures without pressure.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    It's a terrible move. The emotional baggage she has to carry is going to make her very insecure and downright crazy. Trust.

    Source(s): Dated and lived with a rape victim. Never again.
  • 8 years ago

    umm im a victim of family violence and whoever said dont deal with her is crazy.

    she should move near her family because ...its her family. and you cant visit. u dont get with somone so fast, no matter who they are. think of her too, if she is unhappy in texas or if something happens bt you too, she will have to move. it's easier and better for her to move to england. and ps wtf is with spain's laws?!

    youre a good bf

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