Sex at 16???????????????????????????????????

Sound like you guys were meant for each other. Sixteen is the normal age but talk it out with her and see if she's ok with it. I hope you guys stay together!

Sex is one of those things that should be done only when you're ready for the consequences, and most people don't think about those consequences. What are you going to do if the condom breaks? You need to be over 17 to get Plan B without a prescription (or having her mom find out!). What if something happens, and she does end up pregnant (condoms aren't 100% foolproof). If you two love each other, and are comfortable with each other, wait for the sex. If you're happy to wait, then wait. Sex always seems to be this huge wonderful thing when you're a virgin, and while it can be fun it's more fun to do it later when you're older so you can handle the aftermath (like condoms breaking).

I think its a little wrong. 16 is very young and your right it could be very emotional if your break up, but even if you dont, it could still be crazy. Sometimes condoms don't work. Sometimes sex is the reason that people brake up. You could think you are ready and really not be. You say you will wait 30 years for her, and i think that makes you a great guy. Well show that to her. Be there for her, and somewhere down the line, (after marraige? if after all you are planning to be together forever) this could happen.

There is no right or wrong -- only stupid and not stupid. If U have sex, no matter how much protection U use there could be a pregnancy. So use your God given brains and learn how to have non-reproductive sex. It is more fun for both of U not to have to worry about creating a child. The human body can feel very good without intercourse. So read and study this out. There are plenty of books and films out there. Sex is normal, being a parent at 16 is not.

I don't think there is a specific age to have sex. In my opinion once ur mature enough to deal with the consequences of sex and only if ur in love with the person is when u should have sex. And from what u said y'all sound like y'all r in love just make sure ur 100% ready to deal with all possible consequences. Good luck Hun :)

As long as she is willing and you are using adequate protection, then it is both healthy and normal to be having sex with her. BUT...there is something you need to think about first. Adequate protection at your age is not just about condoms. Your lady friend should be on the birth control pill, also. And, depending on what type of birth control pill..she might have to start taking it 1 to 3 months BEFORE she has sex for the first time. Condom use is mandatory, but it's not enough by itself...

There is no such thing as safe sex. But if you wear a condom and your girlfriend is on the pill, that is REASONABLY safe. Because the only safer method is abstinence, which is not even worth considering for a normal human being...

Also, you need to forget about "pulling out". If she is on birth control pill and you are wearing a condom...a better idea is to push IN (deep) when you feel like you are ready to climax.

If you try to pull out, chances are you will not get out fast enough. if you try to RUSH pulling out, you can accidentally slip out of the condom. A safer strategy is to GRASP the condom and pull yourself out slowly...long after you have ejaculated. That way, it is less likely that the condom will fail or leak or fall off.

So again, when you feel like you are ready to ejaculate, push in deep. Not only will this be safer than "pulling out", but it will feel better for both you and your partner. It's even OK to leave it in for a short while after ejaculation. Just when you are ready to pull out, HOLD the condom on with one hand and pull out slowly...

Again if it happens it is not wrong. But make sure your lady friend has been on birth control pills long enough to be protected by them AND wear condoms...

Well I don't think it's a good idea it's great that you love her so much but don't you think you can wait till you get married or think about it because alot could happen condoms don't always work. But I'd be careful if I were you wether you do it or not.

God I wish there were more guys like you at my highschool

Yeah thats ok. In the old days kids had sex at age of 14 no problem Is a healthy age to have sex and have kids. I hope you guys stay married for man years to come !! congratulations on your wedding by the way. :)

16 is against the law.

You having sex with a 30 Year Old is illegal.

18+ is the sex age you underage.

well you decide think about this for a second okay so you dont have a job and need to go to school to get a good one and she dose to well how are you going to do that your not even an adult yett and what if shes not the right one you guys brake up and she dose not allow you to see the baby then what are you going to do think about thay and awnser your own question stupid