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Is it important to have a friend as the same sex?

I don't have many friends who are Muslims and also my sex. I was wondering if it would be better to have a Muslima as a friend.

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  • Hassan
    Lv 7
    8 years ago
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    if you are a girl then you can have female friends.

    there's nothing wrong with.

    your name indicates that you are a girl.

  • N
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    I definetly agree with 'she said..' . Guys and girls cant be friends, one of the two, if not both, will be attracted to the other. Ask any man and he would tell you the same. And women would say they can, maybe their naive I guess. Regardless though, in Islam a man and woman can't be friends as it will lead to other things which is why we need to lower our gaze.

    No, it's not important to have friends. It's nice to have people you can talk to etc but i feel like no one is really trustworthy so I befriend people but to a certain extent an again we don't need friends.. We have Allah and He's the only one that we truly need

  • ?
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    Friends are okay to have but you can't trust them. But yes Muslim friends are usually better because we share common habits. Not sure What girls do though because I'm a guy

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Friends are important and so is learning social skills.

    When you are young you usually have a wide range of friends of genders, religions and backgrounds.

    As you get older you have fewer friends and more acquaintances

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    A girl need to be friend with a girl.

    A guy need to be friend with a guy

  • 'People will be with whom they love' -hadith of Prophet Muhammad (pbuh). Meaning on the day of judgement a person will be raised with those he/she loved i.e. those you stayed with. so you should have muslims as friends because you dont want to be resurrected with the non muslims on that day.

    Also it is haram to have friends of the opposite gender.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Let me tell you a true story:

    "A male and a female can never be just "friends", there is ALWAYS an attraction there"

    - My Ex

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