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I really like this girl. Please help me?

I've been talking to this girl for a few months now and we've hungout a few times. We talk a few times per week over text, but I'm always the one who texts her first. She always responds and we almost always have a good conversation. She's nice, she's pretty, she's funny, she's athletic... I could say a lot more. Anyway, she's never had a boyfriend before and is more on the quiet side when we hangout. But she still tells me after each time we hangout that she'd like to do something again... I've told her I think she looks beautiful and I've complimented her in other ways. I've flirted with her a LITTLE bit, but not too much. But I just don't know how to tell her I really like her or to make our relationship as more than friends. I think right now she's interested in me and I'm interested in her, and we have never been completely in the friend zone so I don't have to worry about that.. I'm pretty smart, I play sports, I can have a sense of humor, I'm nice, and pretty caring.. I look at least average, maybe slightly above it. I think she knows that I really like her, but she hasn't made any real advances with me to make me think that she also really likes me. I would like to take her to prom this year (I still have just under 4 months though) and I have a plan to do that, but I would prefer to be boyfriend/girlfriend with her before then so we can really have a relationship, and then asking her to prom would also be easier. What can I do to make her like me or like me more, as more than a friend? Or in other words, I think she has a little interest in me but what can I do to peak her interest and make all of this work? I'm really nice to her and as I said, I text her first, a few times per week (I'd like her to text me first though too)... But what can I do to spark her interest and actually be something with her? She means a lot to me, so if you can help me it work this out it would mean so much to me!

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    You're the guy. It's a good thing you text first. And if you flirt more, chances are if she likes you she'll hesitate, but flirt back soon enough. Relationships are about love and patients. So give her some time. Show her you like her by just hinting. Don't flat out tell her unless she asks.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    *when a holiday comes up-to wear you can buy her something- get her something she absolutely loves.

    *sometimes when a girl says she wants to hangout again that means she wants to go out on a date and hang out.

    *if you want her to date you now tell your friend and i pretty sure they will tell everyone else then it will eventually reach her making her ask you out.

    * if she is shy you have to ask her out

    * if you think that you 2 are meant to be than bud you'll more than likely date

    *you 2 sound like a good couple. good luck

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