what would a balanced lifestyle consist of?

A job, a hobby or two, a time to rest, a time to socialize with friends and family, and a stress reliever.

Even if you can't or don't want to get a job right now, perhaps you could volunteer somewhere to get used to the idea of working and being around others in such an environment.

chat with people. like me, if you want, lol. chatting with a variety of people keeps me content all day. a balanced lifestyle would include a job or school, alone time, family time, and social time. if you are like me and cannot work or go to school (i have no transportation and nowhere within biking distance of my house is hiring and the school i want to go to is 40 minutes away by car, no way i could ride my bike there), you have to find hobbies. my hobbies are reading and chatting. if you'd like, you can add me on facebook, i'll talk to ANYONE :3 and yes, anyone who sees this answer can add me as well!

http://www.facebook.com/marierogue

You need job before anything else. Get up, go out, and find one. Take any job you can get. It's all good experience.

You must not have to pay any bills or expenses.