why most of the guys pretends to be aloof?

Because that is the way girls train guys to act...with sex.

There was a girl in here just a few days ago...her question went something like...

"OK, so this guy who really doesn't care about me was cheating on me but I slept with him anyway...

Then I met this really nice guy who said he loved me, and I know would never cheat on me and he wanted to sleep with me, but I told him I just wanted to be friends...

How long should I make him wait to have sex with me? ...."

If you read that carefully, you will see exactly the attitude of most young women that drives men INSANE. See, men really want to be "nice", but they can't be. It is literally impossible for a guy to be NICE. A guy can't live without sex, so he has to do what it takes to get sex. That means acting aloof. Or even better...acting like a real @sshole or jerk...

It boils down to this...the guys you really should be having sex with...girls are not interested in.

The guys who will treat you like crap though? You're all over them, giving them sex whenever they want.

What do guys learn from this?

Now you know why guys act they way they do...YOU (girls) trained them to act that way.

Because, you girls, pretend to be Aphrodites!