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Am i weird?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?

Ok I'm 13 and I don't want a boyfriend I have loads of guy friends but they are just friends I'm not attractive at all but if one of my male friends says I look nice or somthing I'm immediately on the defensive!?? Why!

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    It's your age .Your prob insecure ( I was like that too ) it's ok .

    You get defensive cuz u don't think you look nice totally ok .

    Middle school days you know you'll grow out of that by 11th grade in high school mayb college hopefully .

    Don't be like that try to accept the compliment even if you don't think so ?

    I do it all the time better that way .Waste of time ! Being defensive you know girl .

    K stay you ;-) gl with middle school years

    Tough ones

    Answer mines ?

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  • 8 years ago

    Seem fine to me, I was like that too when I was 13 I still believed boys had cooties so I was like yuck! And my friends were getting thier first kisses but hey your not as fast as most girls that's cool! Why do you say I'm not attractive though... I think you need to focus on your confidence also because the awnsers aren't out in yahoo awnsers you got love yourself gurl!!!! Men are always thier your fine, your not wierd you need to focus more on finding yourself instead of believing the false sense of craziness that your wierd and unattractive. Just remember your thoughts become your reality if you allow them become!

    Source(s): 16 yr old gal
  • 8 years ago

    It's because you're insecure. You're not weird though, lots of people are insecure. And you probably are at least deent looking if you are recieving complements, esspecially from guys cause even thiough you are a good friend to them guys at that age don't tend to give compliments like that. Have you ever considered the possibility that you're a lesbian if you're not interesting in liking a guy

  • 8 years ago

    Your answer is in your own question. ''I'm not attractive'' is an impossible statement to make because beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and it is based solely on preference and taste. There is no such thing as ''someone is attractive'' or ''someone isn't''. Your self esteem is why you are defensive when someone compliments you, work on it, because its a very off-putting trait.

    Source(s): Psychology
  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    You're a teenage girl.

    You're acting like a teenage girl.

    Happens. You're just fine. Should work on the self esteem though. You're probably not as unattractive as you think.

    Source(s): Eggs.
  • 8 years ago

    I think your just not ready to like boys in that way and thats normal for your age

  • 8 years ago

    I think your to young to have a boyfriend anyway. Maybe they just don't understand yet.

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