ATTENTION!!! Relationship problem & Opinions are needed badly!!! Thanks! :)?

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Hi all, I really appreciate your time. Here's the issue:
 
Myself and my girlfriend are together for the last 15 months. I am 22 and she is 20. Everything is pretty good. BUT today my girlfriend's best friend Emma rang her and told her that her and her bf had split up and will not be getting back together. It seems as though all of a sudden now Emma wants more of my gf's time compared to when she was with her bf and never made the effort to travel upto Galway to seem my gf( Galway is where me and my gf are both in college). Not that I've a problem about her wanting to spend more time together. 

She started saying stuff to my gf like "Oh I was talking to my lecturer and she said to me that I should head out to California for 3 months of the summer and that these are the golden years to enjoy yourself etc...". Emma is keen on the idea of heading to Califronia for the summer(We are all from Ireland). She then said she'd love if my girlfriend would come with her. Then she asked my girlfriend how our relationship was doing? My girlfriend said our relationship was fantastic and that things are going well and even told Emma about a cute thing I did for her recently. 

It's just the following that really annoyed me: OUT OF NOWHERE Emma then brought up a big fight that me and my girlfriend had 7 months ago and said "that was a terrible fight wasn't it". A fight that took a while to get past. I thought this was TOTALLY DISRESPECTFUL TO OUR RELATIONSHIP AND VERY INAPPROPRIATE, VERY CHILDISH AND SELFISH. I mean, isn't a best friend supposed to be looking out for the other person's happiness and making them happy???
 
I'm just wondering what are your opinions on this and what are your opinions of Emma? Why do you think she brought this up in conversation with my girlfriend??? I know why! You'd want to be braindead if you couldn't work it out!!! But my gf doesn't really see it my way and I want to show her all of YOUR neutralist opinions so that maybe she will see CLEARLY then!!! This has really annoyed me and especially the fact that my gf doesn't see it my way! Detailed & genuine responses will be very much appreciated! I will also rate the top answer in a day or two! Thanks very much in advance for your time! :-)

I want to add that my ONLY issue here is Emma bringing up a big fight that my and my gf had 7 months ago OUT OF NOWHERE very innappropriately! Why do you think she mentioned the fight to my gf and what do you think of Emma doing this???

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Sorry which you're in this precarious difficulty. Your girlfriends buddy is amazingly immature. She is likewise egocentric. She figures now that she is single and loose, misery loves business enterprise. So she is making an attempt to cajole her/your female buddy that she ought to no longer be all that chuffed by retaining previous "dirt" the argument. interior the attempt to seperate her from you. That way she would be single and loose to. regularly as quickly as we are in contact with somebody as friends, fans or relatives we regularly won't be able to see in the time of the wooded area because of the wood, whilst in comparison with somebody who isn't in contact interior the relationship(s). so as a guy or woman who's on the exterior finding in, i might have a good, long communicate at the same time with your female buddy and communicate what's the way forward on your relationship at the same time. i do no longer comprehend while you're already taking part in domicile/shacking yet once you ought to cement the relationship interior the destiny/marriage you extra effective start up discussing that incredible now. Emma is making an attempt to cajole her that besides the indisputable fact that this is actual for her/ Emma she is on the part of her existence the place she is single and loose to discover new paths/instructions in existence, while you and your female buddy would possibly no longer be. in spite of this. in case you experience for her and your female buddy will no longer heed: you may attempt to discover uncharted territories to. you may make it a three some and pass with Emma and discover out what the west coast has to grant. yet be certain you all pass decrease back domicile, we've adequate human beings here already!

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Sorry which you're in this precarious difficulty. Your girlfriends buddy is amazingly immature. She is likewise egocentric. She figures now that she is single and loose, misery loves business enterprise. So she is making an attempt to cajole her/your female buddy that she ought to no longer be all that chuffed by retaining previous "dirt" the argument. interior the attempt to seperate her from you. That way she would be single and loose to. regularly as quickly as we are in contact with somebody as friends, fans or relatives we regularly won't be able to see in the time of the wooded area because of the wood, whilst in comparison with somebody who isn't in contact interior the relationship(s). so as a guy or woman who's on the exterior finding in, i might have a good, long communicate at the same time with your female buddy and communicate what's the way forward on your relationship at the same time. i do no longer comprehend while you're already taking part in domicile/shacking yet once you ought to cement the relationship interior the destiny/marriage you extra effective start up discussing that incredible now. Emma is making an attempt to cajole her that besides the indisputable fact that this is actual for her/ Emma she is on the part of her existence the place she is single and loose to discover new paths/instructions in existence, while you and your female buddy would possibly no longer be. in spite of this. in case you experience for her and your female buddy will no longer heed: you may attempt to discover uncharted territories to. you may make it a three some and pass with Emma and discover out what the west coast has to grant. yet be certain you all pass decrease back domicile, we've adequate human beings here already!

Anonymous · Answer

it honestly sounds like that girl that recently broke up, wants her friend back, like by her side constantly, but if she didn't make the effort before, she shouldn't make a big one now, when your girlfriend is happy. Friends are meant to be there for eachother, and she shouldn't have brought that subject up, it sounds like that because she went threw a break up, she wants your gf to as well, which she shouldn't. it's insecurity. but she should just be happy for your gf, and not get in between it. 
the past is the past..

Anonymous · Answer

she by the looks of it...likes u.......loves u..(maybe)....but she is rather attention seeeking
u need to tell her firmly to mind her own business and stop bothering you...and yes...its was very immature of her to bring up a fight...

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