Is this guy actually gay?

Of course he is, he has a red backpack.

Take his be conscious at face value - do no longer doubt it. popping out to your self can each so often be as difficult as popping out to human beings, and genuine now, i think of genuine now the top of being gay is what has him depressed. of course, he could purely think of he's gay or something, some human beings bypass via dry spells or locate themselves aroused by potential of something diverse than frequent (or unaroused by potential of what they used to love) and think of that without word their sexuality could have replaced. yet while he's depressed, he could have thouht this out rationally and he's in all probability having a tricky time coping with it. even if is actual occurring, purely take even if he says because of the fact the reality... do no longer doubt it and don't attempt to tell him what all of it potential, in basic terms he knows his very own sexuality. He does not would desire to have acted like a stereotypical gay guy in any respect to be gay. no longer each gay guy acts the comparable way, purely like a number of rapidly guy or woman does not act the comparable. He does not even choose one single ounce of something stereotypically gay - it is what makes it harder to hold close the theory-approximately being gay. There are no longer any indicators and no indicators, everyone can confuse him for a rapidly guy if he's actual gay, and human beings you think of are gay are in all probability very rapidly. provide him time to make issues better out with himself. that's in all probability already been frightening and he could no longer comprehend the thank you to handle it. you're doing a stunning situation by potential of being there for him, and remind him that on a daily basis. He needs to nicely known there is not any longer something incorrect with being gay, you do no longer choose him for that and don't care, and he's no longer on my own.

only way to know is ask! :)