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Do most guys find girls that are vegetarians unattractive?

Hi, I am a vegetarian and I was wondering if guys found girls that are vegetarians unattractive. I can be out with friends and ill meet a guy and we can totally be hitting it off, and then he finds out I don't eat meat and it is like a grew a 3rd eyeball or something. I'm not some extremist that freaks out if I see a hamburger or anything I just don't see animals as food. I understand and except that other people have other opinions about the subject and am perfectly fine with that. So if some men could give me a little incite into this subject, that would be great. Thanks!!

Update:

Just to clarify, I don't mind a man that eats meat in front of me. I was a meat eater most of my life and have only been a vegetarian for a couple of years, so I understand why people will eat meat. If my boyfriend wanted to go out and eat a steak, by all means let go and get him a steak. I would not try to change him. All I would ask is that he do the same for me.

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  • Ash
    Lv 4
    8 years ago
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    I think it's very much personal choice. My girlfriend is more or less a vegetarian and she won't even touch certain meats, let alone eat them. I think there may be some sort of stigma attached to it but personally i think it's probably a good sign in a woman, something about being a vegetarian shows a wider consciousness about morality and ecology. I'd take it as a positive, but i suppose more simple minded guys may just think you're weird. I'm sure when you find someone worth dating they'll consider it in the mature and measured way that you'd want them to. Until then, keep looking :)

    I hope I helped!

  • 8 years ago

    I personally wouldn't mind :D. As a guy I will admit I am the typical male: BACON BACON BACON!!!!! I love my meat and I will never give it up. To be honest no guy should judge you based off of your own choice, especially with one like this. The only time it becomes unattractive is when you become a "Meat Eater Hater" (Equivalent to a feminist man hater), being a vegetarian is you're choice and should be respected, but it doesn't mean it's better then others choices.

    The best thing you could do is to just go out to places for dates that have stuff for the both of you, or hell maybe even try to convince him to try some vegetarian food. Don't try to convert, but I mean just try new things. It could be fun for the both of you :)

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    hi! im a vegetarian so i know where youre coming from

    i think most guys are all like "I AM MAN! I EAT MEAT! LOOK HOW TOUGH I AM EATING MEAT!" (not trying to be disrespectful or anything) and most people are closed minded anyway and they just dont understand where we are coming from

    but there are lots of open minded people out there, dont give up

    im proud youre a vegetarian, thank you for being one :)

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Would you like to date a guy who was super religious if you were not, and always told you that you were a bad person, selfish and were going to Hell? Oh, no, you wouldnt like that? It would piss you off, in fact?

    Ok well the same thing applies here.

    Us guys love our steaks, our seafood, and the last thing we want is a constant reminder that we are a "bad person" for eating meat. Most vegetarians (not all, but most) throw that sh*t in our faces, too. They are like Mormons, or 7th day adventists, or Muslims- they ALWAYS have to f*cking "let a guy know" they are vegetarian.

    You actually are the same, apparently. because you say that you TELL EVERY GUY you are vegetarian. Why? WHY/!?!?! WHY THE F*CK DO YOU HAVE TO TELL THEM!?!?!? Just go to a restaurant and order something pasta with no meat, and if he asks dont you like meat? Be like "im not really in the mood today haha".

    You dont have to get all religious on people!! Because thats what vegetarianism is, basically. Its a religion being shoved down our f*cking throats.

    And us guys dont feel like constantly being reminded of how you are a vegetarian, bcuz the subtle implication vegetarians are making is "we are better than you because you kill animals you a**hole and we dont."

    Source(s): Oh and you are also stupid because if you were thrown in a pit of tigers WHO WERE WELL FED, the tigers would rip you apart simply for "invading their domain" and they would also rip you apart for sport even if you were clearly trying to get out of their domain as fast as possible. God knows what they would do if they were hungry- they would rip you apart so good and eat every last bit of you, there wouldn't even be a f*cking PIECE of meat left on those bones of yours. You would literally be eaten to the BONE. Same with every meat eating animal. Sharks ironically enough are one of the FEW animals who DONT wanna eat humans.
  • 7 years ago

    I personally find it unattractive. Most guys I know feel the same way. I would not date a girl knowing she is a vegetarian. That's just my personal preference. I am deffinetely more attracted to a girl who would order a steak at dinner. I just naturally lose interest in a woman if I know she's vegetarian

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I've dated vegetarians, I'm not one, never bothered me. Some of these answers are real *** hats with closed minds. I mean hell, you can order a pizza that's half meat and half cheese, if pizza can do it why can't people? If a guy is too closed minded to accept it then why bother with those guys?

    A lot of people are attracted to symmetry, be it physical features, movie tastes, people like commonality and sometimes a little opposition.

    A guy will accept it, they're out there.

  • 8 years ago

    personally i will not date a vegetarian. I am basically a carnivore and food and eating together is important to me. I cant date a girl that wont go out and get a nice steak with me

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    No but i'll find it "disrespecting" or a "stupid excuse" if a girl doesnt wanna eat a burger im offering to her...'cause you eat only vegies and find meat gross,..do ya think the guy will eat that burger in front of you? No! Akward situation eh? And us guys [most guys] go for a nice personnality.

  • 8 years ago

    Your beliefs and opinions are all that should matter to you. If a man does not respect them, he has no business being in a relationship with you. They are your beliefs not his. As long as you respect his in return there should be no issue. Keep looking. I dont see anything wrong with grilling a veg burger on the other side of the grill from my beef.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    a vegetarian doesn't eat meat , but won't she like (live) meat ?

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