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Long distance relationship! Please help?!?
Ok so there is this guy am madly in love with. I confessed to him and turns out he likes me too... but am just very worried.... am not that pretty and still 14, he is 17... am really afraid that he might like someone else and dump me or loose interest in me... we try to talk everyday, but he is very busy because of work and school and also some home issues. I bet he is very popular since he is extra cute and hot and also he has a great personality. I don't wanna bother him a lot so i just endure talking for a little while but am going crazy about him.... i mean he appears in my dreams and is always on my mind from day to night so basically am going crazy about him. i also re-read the chats we had like a million times a day while waiting for him to come online >-<
Help please help me am very scared he will dump me or something and i really think i will go crazy if he does! am not usually like this...i don't really have real life friends since they always dump me for new friends since am an anime manga fan and don't really talk a lot, so i just say bad luck, i never really mind being alone but am very scared that i will loose him!
Burton as i said am not the type that really cares... i don't even know local guys and i don't really care -.-'' like i said am the type to get obsessed about others. I really do love him and i am already searching for work so that i can save money and visit him as soon as i have permission.
LostLiGirl nope he is not since he video chat ^^ yeah i know, but i really like him and cant help it ^^ yeah we skype and talk on facebook, but he very busy so he responds late many times, i understand this so i try not to bother him ^^ Thankyou
Shay, yeah i know i may be too young but for now i really love him, and i wanna try and stay positive.... i know that most relationships don't work out but i really ant it to work out ^^ thank you still^^ when the time comes that i stop being crazy about him and stop liking him, but for now(i hope forever) i really do love him ^^
Arvie, yeah i know am insecure but i cant help it... he says he likes me a lot but i still worry.
4 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
Personally I never think that online, long distance relationships are worth it. If you guys only talk to each other online... i think to keep the relationship interesting a better, you'd be skyping a lot and kiking, facebooking and that stuff.
Just make sure that his not some random 43 year old child pedophile pretending to be this super cute and hot guy... so u guess when your ready just ask him for his skype or facetime, and seriously don't let you feelings block you from the truth, just be sure that this guy is who he says he is, unless if you've met him in person.
keep it cool, real and not awkward :)
Source(s): mee :) - 8 years ago
Wow, when I was 14 I fell in love online too, to this guy in Florida (I'm in south Carolina) we would talk every night we even watch a movie together (he watched it from his house I watched it from mine) I thought I was in love with him, I'd wake up with him on my mine go to sleep with him on my mine. Then our parents didn't lyk us dating each other because we could have both been lying about everything as far as they were concerned. So we had to stop talking to each other for lyk 2 months I was crying, and I could feel him lyk in me lyk he was my soul. I could feel his pain which was weird, so eventually we start sneaking, and talking. And we fell out of love and literally stop talking to each other, then I thought to myself, love is as strong as the grave, so we were infatuated by each other, and we really weren't in love, because I was too young, baby girl your too young to be in love right now. You don't know you are in love until your love for each other is tested.
- 8 years ago
You're still too young to be in love. My advice is to avoid long distance relationships and just date local guys. When you're older then you can worry about love.
- Anonymous8 years ago
you're just being insecure