Girlfriend broke up with me now im confused?

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So I go over to my girlfriends house and I noticed she was acting weird after we had sex a week prior. I took her virginity and confirmed that she was one and she stated that she felt weird as if she has anxiety and unsureness.

Also she stated that she felt like that I liked her more than she did and she felt it as if it were unfair. Lastly I felt as if she were trying to make me feel bad or something and stated she doesnt see her life with me because she were to move to school in Washington. She stated that I was a good guy and a good boyfriend too.

I understand that part but what I cant understand is why I dont feel bad or sad or attached in any way. IF she were to ask for me back after shes done with all this emotional crap should i take her or let her know she lost me.

What do you think what will happen?

Anonymous · Answer

you dont feel bad or sad or attached because you don't truly like/love her. Maybe u just went into a relationship too soon and are still not sure how u feel about her and how she feels about u. After breakups boys usually take longer than girls to take in what happened (usually a month) to understand their feelings. You maybe all happy at first then a week later u could be dying for her. I reckon just let her go, u guys need time away from each other to figure out ur feelings. If she misses u and comes back and u do too then take her back but if u dont feel anything then dont, trust me if u do u'll regret it later. Hope everything works out good luck :)

? · Answer

You don't really seem to be going together in the long run. When she asks you, do what you feel at that time. Keep some distance for now and see for yourself if it affects you.

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