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She broke up with me after losing her virginity?

I confirmed and verified she was a virgin. We have been dating for a couple months and she was ready and I took her virginity. After a week she stated she felt weird and broke up with me. I was shocked and I dont know what is going to happen.

I havent contacted her in a week and I feel like i didnt get enough time with her. I do like the girl but I dont know if she will come back or not. I know after sex especially after losing their virginity, they get emotionally attached. Why would she decide to leave? I have been nothing but good to her :/ What do you guys think what will happen?

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    8 years ago
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    It could be post-loss of virginity trauma, where she now regrets losing it. She may think she didn't love you enough to actually do it and now is haivng questions to herself aboiut her actions and if you truly did love her and not was after sex. You might want to make a concerted effort to get with her and talk it out if you have some true feelings for her and want her back.

  • 8 years ago

    From what you explained, she probably has someone else, or maybe she was just trying to lose her virginity to anyone, because of peer pressure. If she broke up with you shortly after that, then there seems to be no way she was that into you. Because as you said a girl would normally cling to her first like white on rice. And, if there was love even more so. Just look at the bright side and move on to someone else. She probably won't tell you the real reason why she broke up with you. Main reason, is she did not love you. But, doesn't mean you were bad in bed, because you don't need love to have sex.

    Good luck!

  • 8 years ago

    I think if you want her back you are going to have to pursue her.

    What may have happened is that she was keen on losing her virginity, but then regretted it afterwards and now wishes she had waited longer. Shame or confusion at what she did could easily result in her distancing herself from you.

    What you need to do is make it clear to her that you genuinely do care about her as a person and that you are not just trying to get more sex. Talk to her. Ask her how she feels and listen to what she has to say.

    There's no guarantees. She may simply have decided she doesn't want to be with you, for whatever reason. But if you want her back, proving you care is the only way that might work.

  • 8 years ago

    When it comes to relationship problems,please don't make any silly comments guys.this is serious.I've been in a situation where my virginity was taken but I was a fool coz he had a girlfriend that I didn't know about and its hard to move on.</3 that's why I find it weird that she just broke up with you.And the fact that she said she felt weird was just a lame excuse!she proberbly has found someone else.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Ok. She might be pregnant.

    She was caught in the moment.

    She used you as a lab rat.

    Anything could happen.

    Source(s): Parents.
  • 8 years ago

    'they get emotionally attached' sorry to put you out but no we don't, and the fact shes done a runner proves it.

    She may just not be as into you as you are to her, don't worry about it, they'll be someone else.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    I don't think she was ready. She probably freaked out and didn't like it. It's a lot to deal with, and you weren't the person to help her deal with the feelings.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    Maybe she might think she is pregnant.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    you were either really bad in bed or you were the test shag.. either way move on

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