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Girlfriend's Ex Threatening Her (With a Twist)?
Okay so my girlfriend had a bad breakup with her ex. He threatened to kill her and her family over text and continues to say that he is going to "get" her. Here is the twist, she slashed his tires and was sent to jail for a few hours in a reaction to his texts and treatment of her. She seems convinced that the police won't do anything for her because she vandalized his car.
I'm not trying to justify her behavior, but he has apparently put his hands on her before. What should she do?
4 Answers
- Raoul DukeLv 78 years agoFavorite Answer
she can't do anything now, she already screwed up. she should have taken the threatening texts to the police and handled it that way. instead she escalated it to the next level and instead of staying away and cutting all contact, she made it worse.
all she can do now is hope the judge doesn't give too much of a punishment (doubtful) and save her money for court costs and fines, and a new set of tires for her ex. (court ordered i'm sure).
advice. get out now. this girl is addicted to drama. if you ever do break up with her, get an extra set of tires first.
- Lone CatLv 78 years ago
The myth about abuse. The man beats up the women. Or one person is abusing the other person.
The truth about abuse. 99% of the time both people are involved in the abuse.
This girl is dangerous. She's an abusive jerk. Her thing about her ex hitting her. I don't know if it's true, but I do know that her telling you is part of the patern of abuse. See she breaks up with him and now she gets back at him by making him the evil abuser.
And your falling right into the trap. And some day, very soon, your going to be the victim in that trap. And she's going to be telling her new boyfriend what an evil and abusive jerk you are.
I don't expect you to believe me on this. So all I ask is that you keep this in the back of your head, and when she starts abusing you, then remember this and learn from your mistake. Don't be one of those people who jumps from one abusive relationship to another.
- ?Lv 58 years ago
So she either takes her phone and shows the text messages to the police, threatening to kill someone is a crime........ or she takes things into her own hands again and pays the consequences like she has before....................
- Anonymous8 years ago
She should tell you it's not your business to muck around in her dirty laundry. Let her deal with the consequences of her own bad decisions, if you have any dignity whatsoever.
Man you can pick 'em.