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I cheated on my boyfriend with my ex...?

I feel awful, and I'm not going to make it sound like I'm the victim. I know I was wrong, and what I did was horrible. Before my boyfriend and I started dating we talked for about a month I wanna say, we've only been going out for a little over a week. My ex boyfriend has constantly let himself come in and out of my life as he pleases, he's not the best influence on me either, he has gone to jail, been on probation multiple times, and is currently couch hopping. My ex and I would hang out before my boyfriend and I started dating, but once he found out we were going out he tried pulling the whole "I wanna be with you again card". I managed to ignore it and tell him we were only friends until last night.. My boyfriend is a great guy, and I don't want to lose him but I know I have to tell him. The only thing is that I'm afraid, his anger is awful, we got into a few fights already and it ended up with him punching walls and screaming. Cheating is wrong, it's happened to me numerous times and I never thought I'd be the culprit, but I really don't know what to do..

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    You have to tell your boyfriend. I don't see why you cheated in the first place. and you have to stop any contact with your ex if you want future relationships to work out. so tell your boyfriend and face the consequences. If he is willing to fix it then good, if he is mad and wants to end it then you have no right o blame him as you know what you did was wrong.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    You made a mistake, own up to it and maybe your relationship will survive it. Lying about it will only make things worse.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    8 years ago

    Start packing your bags...if your boyfriend is smart he'll do the right thing and dump you.

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