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Is it normal for boyfriends to constantly swear at you?

I just need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been dating two and a half years and we used to never swear at eachother. We'd swear but never at eachother and we'd never say I hate you. We went through a 2 month phase recently where we fought non stop for hours at a time usually ending with me crying. I became more emotional and he became angrier which made fights even more common. During this time he started to hardcore curse at me. Telling me to shut the f*** up and calling me a *****. I think I hear him tell me to shut the f up at least once a day and it's usually over me just telling him something he doesn't wanna hear. Nothing mean just like saying his conversation with his brother was confusing and he'd get all pissed and swear at me. I've only sworn at him once. I know to some it may seem stupid but I grew up in a family that never swore infront of eachother. I don't mind it but when it's said to someone you're to love I feel like it's a slap in the face and disrespectful.

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  • 8 years ago

    Talk to him about how you are feeling, it might help, but I don't think it's normal for him to swear at you. I was raised in a family that never swore at each other too, so maybe it's just me, but I think that's kind of rude of him to swear at you so much. Fights are normal but excessive swearing over little things? No.

  • 8 years ago

    Im so sorry for you first of all because no guy should treat you like that. Im also sorry to say what I'm about to say. But, he seems like he just isn't the right guy. I know this may be hard for you but you may want to break up with him. There are so many other guys out there that will treat you so much better than this guy is. I hope I helped you solve your problem and I'm sorry about what's happening.

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    8 years ago

    No its not normal. Hes a jerk, disrespectful and foul

  • 8 years ago

    No it is not normal nor should you put up with it. Move on!!!

  • 8 years ago

    Not normal at all

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