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do i still have feelings for her after all this time..or am i fooling my self?
Me and this girl have been broken up for a couple of years now. She broke up with me. Then she wanted to get back together but i moved away. Now she has a kid with some one else and shes in a relationship. I havent been with any one else. Im just a shy guy who keeps to my self. When we first got together she left some one for me. From time to time ive had dreams about her and it would make me miss her. Some times we talk on facebook. I dont know what to do. There are times i think im finally over her but the feelings resurface. If shes happy id like to lwave her alone even if im not gonna be. But im just really confused.
2 Answers
- 7 years ago
I would agree more to the latter however, I feel that "fooling my self," isn't an accurate description. In your relationship Im sure you both made many memories together and it is those memories that still tie her to you. She is the last relationship you've had so it is not weird to keep recalling those memories. I believe that rather than longing for her, you are longing for someone to be with. Someone that can make you feel the way you did before like in those memories with her. In fact, if you have to ask whether or not you have feelings for her, then any feelings you may or may not have are obviously not significant enough to take action. If you aim for any girl, your resolve must be adamant. (adamant as in "I am going for her," or "I am gonna make her mine") Half-assed feelings only cause pain for those involved.
- 7 years ago
I think you keep looking back into the past. You haven't been with anyone else and you miss not having someone like her. She obviously has moved on by having a kid with someone else and being with someone else. To move on to the next chapter in your life, you have to stop looking over the previous chapter. Put yourself out there and I am sure you will find someone better! (:
