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Girl I like didn't text back, I need advice?!?
Okay ladies, I REALLY need some much needed advice here! So i'm a 22 year old guy, and I really like this girl who I work with who is my age. We've worked together for like 5 months but I've really liked her a lot over the last 6 weeks or so. Everytime we talk I find some new random thing I like about her, I have so much in common with her even if she doesn't know it. She is sweet, kind, caring, funny, pretty, had great family values, and honestly in my eyes she's just a gem.
She's always cool with me too, and jokes around with me, and has flirted with me in the past. She will smile, and giggle at me at times too!The other day I went into work when she was working, and talked to her for like an hour. Throughout the hour she probably looked at me and smiled at me like 6 different occasions. I felt optimistic about that, that she was smiling at me. Right before I left I asked her what she was doing the rest of the weekend, and she said she had a friends B-day party to go to. I asked "what about during the week?" She said she had a lot more free time during the week to maybe do something, and to just text her.
So the next day I text her saying "hey..!!!". She responds 2 minutes later saying "hey there!", and then I ask her "how are you, how did you enjoy your day off" just trying to start a conversation. Then nothing! She didn't text back the rest of the night! And this was at 5:30 p.m. I'm really discouraged.. Why did I get ignored? She seemed a lot more interested in person, and i REALLY like her..
Should I text her back within the next 24 hours? Should i openly ask her if she was still interested in hanging out one night this week? Or will it bug her/turn her off? Does she not wanna talk to me?
4 Answers
- ?Lv 77 years agoFavorite Answer
Don't text her again until she texts. When you see her at work don't make any mention about her not reply... don't make it an issue. Seems like she rather talk in person anyway..
So when you see her next, ask her about getting a drink or coffee. That way she doesn't feel like she has to dedicate the whole night to you if she's "unsure about 'dating' a coworker" ....
- 7 years ago
ooo sticky situation! First of all don't jump to conclusions! For all you know she could of dropper her phone down the toilet, lost it or it could've run out of charge. I always get paranoid when someone doesn't text me back and its often because they've just forgotten!
If she replies reply in the next couple of hours maybe wait 2 or 3 but I wouldn't wait a whole day because you don't want her to think youre trying to play mind games. Personally I would openly ask her if she is still up for doing something during the week because for all you know she could be, the worse thing that could happen is she could say shes busy and in that case just hold your head high smile and say no worries maybe some other time! After that, smile and flirt as much as you want in person but try and wait for her to ask you to do something, if it seems like you are both waiting for each other to ask the other one only then ask her out. Until then keep smiling :) xxx
- KimberlyLv 45 years ago
I like this one ; "hey, you're probably sleeping right now but I just wanted to let you know that you'rethe most beautifull girl I've ever seen in my entire life, have a good night and I hope this gives you a big smile in the morning :) <3" the "good morning beautiful" one is also really cute. I think youu should put a kissing face after it like :* ahaa . personally I loveee hearing compliments from guys about my looks or personality, it makes me feel better :D good luck! i hope things will workk out! (:
- 7 years ago
Let her reply next!! :) she probably just doesn't want to come off too strong so just give it time! I know how you feel, you feel like you have done wrong or something is going on but seriously just wait! You don't want to come across as desperate :) if she doesn't reply in the next day or two change the subject and straight out ask (text)"do you want to go to the cinema sat?" Etc. anything like that! Best of luck and don't worry!
