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I feel like I can't be myself with him?
He liked me and I liked him.
We started dating, I got scared and ended it, then we got back together and two months later after a long fight I ended it again. This week we got back together.
When I'm with him I feel like I have to watch what I say and do because if I choose friends over him, or choose to go to bed early instead of hang out he takes it as a personal offense. I constantly feel like I am not showing him enough attention, and he says he is very afraid that I will get mad and leave again.
He likes me a lot, always wants to hang out. I like him too. While we were broken up I missed him. But our relationship stresses me out. I want freedom, but I don't want to break his heart again.
I'm just confused, what should I do?
I do love him, which is why i am so upset by how easily i hurt his feelings.
2 Answers
- 7 years agoFavorite Answer
It's not a healthy relationship for either of you. You shouldn't be in a relationship where you feel obligated to do everything the way he wants it. The feeling you get when around him should be natural, you shouldn't be nervous. Sounds like you are too young and immature (no offense) to be in a relationship.
- 7 years ago
If you can't be yourself around him, he's not right for you. You guys seem to have an on/off relationship, and I noticed you kept using "like" to describe your relationship. Do you love him? If you don't love him, then there's no point to this relationship. If it stresses you out, break up. Its not fair for either of you to be with someone that you don't unconditionally love
