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Straight girl with a bisexual problem, help?
Okay, so I'm a 100% straight female. In one of my classes, I overheard a girl talking about a gay couple she likes from an anime. Being a fan of that anime, I immediately started to talk to her about the show, and we talked about how cute that couple was. Yesterday, she started to talk to me, and she would keep tickling me. She even came up behind me and hugged me from the behind many times, and she also stroked my arms. This was extremely uncomfortable for me, and I squirmed around and told her nicely that it was weird. ("Ahhh sorry I'm not a huggy person..." "Stoooop") I don't know what to do, because I really don't like it. Is she flirting? How do I send her the message that I'm not interested?
Also, this girl and I barely knew each other. I just found out her name yesterday.
I'm pretty sure she's bisexual, because she was talking about how she wants a partner who'll watch anime with her, not a boyfriend or a girlfriend, but a partner. Is that a good indication?
2 Answers
- 7 years ago
She is doing more than flirting! She is taking advantage of you. You need to get her attention and tell her in no uncertain terms to leave you alone. Don't apologize in any way for expressing your feelings. Don't feel guilty for demanding respect. Just tell her and walk away. This will powerfully convey your dislike for her disrespectful behavior.
Source(s): Life experience. - 7 years ago
She believes you sent her a message that you are bisexual, and maybe interested. Be gentle and tell her you are straight.
