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Fiancee says he has a crush on my best friend?

My fiancee had been suggesting I invite my best friend over a lot. Suspicious. I snooped in his phone and he mentioned to a guy friend that he had a crush on her for a while and wanted to tell her how beautiful she is but didn't want to make me angry. How is it not a no brainer to keep it to yourself? I told my BFF about it and she was surprised and very comforting. I promised I wasn't angry with her and I'm not. I'm hurt, upset and confused. I know my BFF has no interest with my man so she isn't a threat, but I'm still in a lot of hurt. Help?

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  • Nicole
    Lv 5
    7 years ago
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    I wouldn't trust him, its one thing for him to think someone is beautiful, but its a totally different story that he told other people about it and even worst, wants you to invite her over. Clearly he is trying to spend time with her, I wouldn't keep him as my fiancé as I was you. You aren't even married yet and you are having these kind of issues, its just a warning of things to come.

  • 7 years ago

    Hi!

    Hmm this is a difficult one. I would suggest having a deep chat to your fiancee and your best friend, and see where to go from now.

    If you are still very hurt then maybe go away for a few days and cool off and make sure if are in the right head space to make important decisions about this problem.

    Good Luck!

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  • 7 years ago

    My boyfriend did that to me, but he was talking to her behind my back. I was so pissed off and hurt, I basically said that you cant ******* treat me like that or we are not going to be together. And hes changed a lot now to do things for me and not be a stupid horndog. But all men are different.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    lesson learned, don't snoop. he can be attracted to other people but still love you and only you. unless he's doing things that are clearly disrupting your relationship, give him some privacy

  • 7 years ago

    remind him negative things about her

  • 7 years ago

    nothing wrong with that let him have sex with her once . it will fix this problem

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