so, my mom is married to a convicted sex offender. would it be rude to ask her to not bring him to my house?

You, and only you, have every right to control who you allow in your home.

Not at all you have every right to refuse him entry. You call the police if he shows up and or contact the police prior to advise. Does he have specific requirements of being able to leave his home address etc or on a sex offender register? I would even consider taking out a restraining order to ensure he never goes near you. Good luck

Oh my God, no it isn't rude and I would do the same thing. Why on earth would anyone with kids ever even think of marrying a man capable of something like that? I would demand she comes alone or she doesn't visit at all.

NEVER EVER let a convicted sex offender into your home. Its dangerous for you and your child and never leave the child with your mom. If she would knowingly date someone like that there is something very wrong with your mother. Sex offenders NEVER change its a mental illness. and those types of people are very dangerous.

Rude or Not, keep that men away from all of you. Sorry but, your mom is not right in her head.

Protect your child.

I agree with Ruby "I would even consider taking out a restraining order to ensure he never goes near you. Good luck"

Why the blanket hate? Do you know anything about his crime? Remorse? Punishment? Counseling? The "victim?" Did you know that only one in twenty five perps of sex crimes are ever caught? That means you are probably around a lot of people who are no better. They just haven't been caught.

A great lesson for you, a future mom, is to know that it is easier to trust the devil you know than the devil you don't. 97% of sex crimes are committed by people who are NOT registered sex offenders. That means your child is at greater risk around someone who you would trust more. Just look at these type "crimes." Most are committed by people who trusted by the parents and victim such as uncles, baby sitters, cousins, neighbors, grandfathers, step dads, teachers, coaches, etcetera.

Marijuana has long been considered and LABELED the "devil drug." We now know that it is quite harmless. "Sex Offender" is just that, a label. It is meaningless without all the facts.

If you are a Christian, do you pray each week "forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass?" Hate begets hate. Who are you to judge? Lest one day you will be judged. Read this short blog:

http://www.democratandchronicle.com/story/opinion/...

Hmmmm only you can enforce the rules, how do you not know he is not checking out the place to come back and hurt you when he is there. I would not let him come near my house.

to bad she feels like that do NOT HAVE THIS SICK GUY AROUND YOUR FAMILY AND ASK YOUR MOM TO GET HELP ALSO FOR HAVING THAT KIND OF person around her. sorry about caps .

your family comes first and safety. take care.

You: "Mom, I don't want you bringing your husband to my house."

Mom: "What, you don't want me around???"

You: "If the only way I can have you around is in the company of a pedophile, then no, I don't want you around."

it wouldnt