Am I too fat to date?

Merry Christmas, Babyyxx!

Your weight is not your problem; it's how you see yourself. If I may say this without sounding too effusive, you appear perfect to me. Mind you, my appraisal of your obviously good looks has as its source a lifelong adoration of "full-figured" women. Which is to say that you're not going to appeal to every cute guy you happen to lay your eyes on. So what. Accepting that reality is the first step toward cultivating a love for yourself and, I dare say, a pride in your uniqueness as a human being. You have no reason to be self-conscious or ashamed of your appearance. I realize that you have to carve your own niche within a pastiche stitched together by that omnipresent female ideal, the slender, blue-eyed blonde. But as you carve it, you will soon encounter male admirers who appreciate the natural beauty of a woman who doesn't conform to the strictures established by the Playboy mentality. Don't fret about not attracting a boyfriend; he's there but he hasn't found you yet. Once you have gained more confidence in yourself and have strived to jettison the desire to be someone you are not, then that fellow will be drawn to you. In the meantime, go about your daily life with one thing chiefly in mind: "I am a beautiful woman, dammit, unique in my own right, and I ain't gonna compare myself to nobody ever again!" Never mind the incorrect grammar; say it often enough, in a similarly forceful manner, and not only will your subconscious mind get the message but also the boys who are inclined to agree.

God bless full-figured women. They have certainly given me a lot of joy.

you're fine. not too fat to date. I personally like skinny girls, but not too skinny.

go out and talk to guys to see for yourself, if they give you a negative response, something is wrong with them.

you're chubby not fat, but to a girl chubby is fat, but to me chubby is cute so. no you're not "too fat" to date. :P you look cute ^-^