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How long after dating did you have sex?

Just wanna know how long I'm expected to wait. I don't want to take advantage or anything, I just want to know.

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  • ?
    Lv 5
    7 years ago

    I've noticed that all the answers saying a very short amount of time have been thumbed up whereas all the ones saying 'wait until...' have been thumbed down. Obviously you have already made up your mind and have asked the question, and are ignoring any answers that don't support your decision. Just go with it, enjoy dating and see what happens. If you are already thinking about sex with a 'how long am I expected to wait' sort of attitude, you are going the wrong way about it.

    Go ahead, thumb me down.

  • ?
    Lv 6
    7 years ago

    LoL.

    There have been times when sex happened before the date even got started...

    Source(s): ~Marisela~
  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    It really depends on both the persons involved...

    It's not a matter of time, but, usually, I was first taking her out two or three times, then, at approx. the 4-th date, I was getting into "business" with her...

    Still, I do remember f*cking my first wife at the first date - in three months after that, we were getting married!

    So, don't make (or follow) "rules", since, in fact, they don't really exist!

    Go with the flow!

  • Realize there is no right answer. Both of you should agree when the times right. Don't force the issue. Definitely do not make decisions based on the bible. Otherwise incest, mass murder, killing your children, offering your virgin daughters to a crowd of rapists, treating women as a possession same as cattle would be alright to do.

    FAITH DOES'NT MAKE BETTER PEOPLE. BEHAVIOR DOES.

  • 7 years ago

    well when i had sex for the first time i had waited a year and a half into the relationship i was in sooooo lol

  • Trang
    Lv 4
    7 years ago

    we never know . What comes will come. We did it in first day but have been been together for 5 years still . So u know what i meant

  • 7 years ago

    3 to 6 months is a good amount of time to wait before getting intimate

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Probably like a week. Lol, and we're still strong, almost a year.

    Source(s): Myself :)
  • 7 years ago

    wait 4-5 months if you want the relationship to last. Unless she's giving you strong signs that she wants to

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Depends if fingering counts but I guess a week.

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