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I'm close to the edge, what do I do?

My girlfriend, (even though I don't know how much longer she will be that), is sick by as far as I can tell. She's nauseous, has headaches, can't eat and feels like she's gonna puke, and I've been telling her it could be stress or what have you, but she's convinced that it's karma for going out with me after everything that happened between me, her, and my brother. They used to date, but things went sour, and now they don't really talk now. He doesn't really like her anymore and she just wants to be friends, which I can kinda understand. But now she blames herself for everything that happened between the three of us, and now she just meesaged me on Facebook saying "she can't take it anymore, she should just go lesbo.....etc, etc". What do I think of this? What should I do?? I've tried to be the best boyfriend I know how to be, and she keeps finding reasons as to why we shouldn't be together....

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  • Jessi
    Lv 4
    7 years ago
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    Is she pregnant?

    You have talked about her alot and I honestly think it is time for you to back away and let her work out her issues alone. She obviously has alot of personal things she needs to work out. As time goes on and you speak more of her I think the wants your brother back. But honestly I don't know her so I don't know. But if your giving 100% and she is giving none that is not fair for anyone. She really needs to find herself before dragging anyone else down with her.

    She needs to check to see if shes pregnant becaue those are pregnancy symptoms, and then you need to sit with her and say enough is enough you either want me or not need to prove you do that is when you will know if she is meant to be yours

  • 7 years ago

    i don''t think it is karma at all, but her worry and or guilt is making her sick.

    i think the best thing for you both is to break up.

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